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Our Stories 6 Comments

CARDBOARDSEXUALITY: Another Sexual Behaviour?

This write-up is strictly based on personal exploration and a need to inform in case there are those who feel the same. As a result, there are no projections, no

Kito Stories 16 Comments

SURVIVING THE TRAUMA

Sometime in June 2018, I had a terrible kito experience which made me withdraw from life, also causing me to suffer post traumatic stress so severe, I had to go

Editor's Desk 1 Comment

Accommodation: Need For A Flatmate

Hello KD I am in urgent need of a male roommate at Jakande, Lekki, in a shared flat for a monthly rent that is very affordable. The rates are 40

Fiction 6 Comments

FROM THE BED’S POINT OF VIEW

FOREWORD: After reading Alté Jay’s story about possibly finding love with his dark-skinned Grindr hookup, I thought about someone whose voice hadn’t been heard, whose side of the story hadn’t

Kito Stories 4 Comments

KITO ALERT LXX

1. His name (according to Truecaller) is Yar Zuma, and he operates in the North, Katsina and Kano according to the reports we got. His number is 08034936555. 2. His

Our Stories 20 Comments

IF THIS IS LOVE

His profile is blank, showing nothing but 39. I am having a bad Grindr day. When I send him “Hi”, he takes ages before he responds, and then we start

Our Stories 8 Comments

Straight? No! Bisexual? Maybe.

I did not have much exposure to the LGBTQ+ community, when I was growing up. Then again, very few people of a generation were. I was also very sheltered in

The Happenings 2 Comments

OnlyFans Releases Details Regarding Ban On Adult Content, Responds to Creators

News broke last week that OnlyFans would be banning all sexually explicit material starting in October 1. OnlyFans confirmed the news shortly thereafter, stipulating that the platform — which made

Kito Stories 6 Comments

Kito Alert: Toyin Street In Ikeja, Lagos Is Becoming A Regular Kito Haunt

There have been past kito reports/stories (read HERE, HERE and HERE) that involved the victims getting lured to places on Toyin Street in Ikeja, where they got set up. This

Fiction 19 Comments

THE HOUSEKEEPER

During my three-year stay in Abuja, I got employed as domestic staff to make some cash while on holiday. I went in every two days to clean the apartment. He