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A Medley Of Opinions About Love And Relationship In The Nigerian Gay Community

So, a couple of days ago, I posted my response to a friend who wanted some answers about love and relationships. Before I arrived at my response, I brought the

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TO THE FRIEND LOOKING FOR LOVE

Dear Friend So, okay, the questions you asked me regarding the issues you have with finding love and being in a relationship really gave me pause. It was something I

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#HowIResist Campaign 21

Imagine you are a married, heterosexual person, and imagine your life up to this point altered in only one way, that instead of being partnered with someone of the opposite

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I AM NOT THE PROBLEM

I find it extremely patronizing when people tell me to tone it down, to soften my speech, my words are too corrosive, shit like that. And indeed I understand the

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#HowIResist Campaign 20

At the core of many of the problems that plague humanity is the lack of empathy. The moment you are able to empathize with somebody, the moment you are able

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Dreaming of a Gay Superman

A young man walked past with a glide that caused a deep, uncomfortable stir within the barbershop. One of the patrons laughed and said, with a forced disdain, “These faggots

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DEAR TOP (aka The Ranting Of A Much Aggrieved Bottom)

Dear Top – yes, you, Mister Man I will begin by saying two things. First, you’re really not that good in bed. Second, your dick isn’t even that big. Trust

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#HowIResist Campaign 19

We are supposed to “let your light so shine before men” through our lives and work (Matt. 5:16). Light does not make noise. But what do we find today? We

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TRUE LIES

Sometime in 2016, when I was in my 300 level, I was looking for accommodation in school, something I could afford, and my friend took me to his former lodge,

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Age 6

I was in Primary School. I had just gotten a double promotion from Nursery School and I didn’t know any of my new classmates. I was an awkward child with