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Hopscotch To Abuja

Most people I meet are through Instagram, so I can’t quite relate when people mention meeting people on grindr, manjam, and the like. I am Instagram addict, and that is

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An Open Letter To Ageist Gay Men

This piece was originally published on Queerty.com * Dear Ageist Gays, George Bernard Shaw famously wrote “Youth is wasted on the young.” If you don’t understand what this means, then

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STITCHES AND BRITCHES

All my life, I have tried to understand the world of fashion. I have tried to understand why I shouldn’t wear brown and black together (I refuse to use the

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No Strings With Mike Daemon (Episode 10)

Adejoke Tugbiyele is a Nigerian who currently lives in the US. She first came out in Nigeria on CNN in January 19 2014. In this episode, Adejoke Tugbiyele chronicles her

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WHO I WILL ALWAYS BE

You all know about that world we live in – the one where we go to school, get good grades, get a good job, get married, have kids, retire and

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You Can’t Save Them All

You can’t save them all. It’s not for a lack of trying, because you actually do try. You try to be a good friend. You try to always be there,

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This One Is For The Power Bottoms

Titled ‘Bottoms Considered More Promiscuous than Tops?’, this piece was originally published on gayguys.com. It’s quite a read. Check on it below and share your thoughts. * I’ve always believed

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No Strings With Mike Daemon (Episode 9)

A lack of information could make people sometimes ask or make stupid, crazy, and annoying questions or remarks. And when this happens, we feel like – Aarrgh! Wish I could

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IDENTITY THEFT

I was going through some grindr profiles as I usually do when I get bored, when a profile caught my attention. The profile had the picture of someone I knew,

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That Piece About The Difference Between Fucking, Sex And Making Love

Originally published on gayguys.com I’ve had all kinds of sex, honey – some at my prime, others not so much. What I’ve realized, now that I’m at an age to