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May The Kite And Eagle Perch

Written by Kambili Chimalu, and originally published on Bellanaija.com * A lot of gay Nigerians are increasingly stepping into the limelight to campaign for their rights as human beings deserving

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No Strings With Mike Daemon (Episode 14)

In this episode, NOSTRINGS catches up with Seyi Adebanjo, a queer, gender non-conforming Nigerian, in the discussion of gender related issues. ‘They’ speak on the reasons why ‘they’ do not

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MY FEARS

FOREWORD: When I read this, my first emotion was surprise. Considering the person who sent it for publication, I could not believe the depth of vulnerability he showed himself capable

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She Asked: FREEDOM OR A SLIPPERY SLOPE TO MORE?

FOREWORD: My attention was brought to a recent Facebook post updated by a female, Eketi Ette. I read it, and I decided to share. Read and of course, let us

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No Strings With Mike Daemon: The Teflondon Interview

FOREWORD: Ok, so I captioned it that way so y’all will know that this episode of No Strings has a KDian on the hot seat 🙂 (Hi, Tef) Check on it

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IN THE COVER OF THE DARK

“Suck it! Suck it now!” He snarled the words at me, pulling me forward to him and attempting to shove me on my knees before the small, turgid penis sticking

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WHAT WE ARE GETTING WRONG IN THE “MGM” CONVERSATION

Definition: MGM (Married Gay Man) /em ’dƷi: em/ (derogatory) A closeted homosexual in a heterosexual marriage. Usually applied to males, but can also describe a lesbian or bisexual whose spouse

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OPEN LETTER TO MY SON

My dear adorable son, I love you very, very much. My love is without condition and I honestly hope that you’ll forever know that, no matter your age or how

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A Handy Flowchart To Make You Know If Your Friend-With-Benefits Is Boyfriend Material

Dating apps have revolutionized how gay men hook up. Gone are the days of dark, smokey bars and online chat rooms making small talk with strangers. These days, all it

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Those Hookup Abbreviations You Should Know (Just In Case You Didn’t Already)

If you ever log onto Grindr, SCRUFF or one of the dozens of other knock-offs only to feel like you’re lost in a sea of newfangled and, at times, completely