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SAFE ONLINE DATING

Nigeria is very homophobic which drives same sex relationships underground. Then came the Internet (I often wonder how men hooked up in the 80s, but that’s matter for another day).

The Happenings 40 Comments

Married Father Comes Out As Gay In A Video

In this inspiring video, 25-year-old Ben Hobson shares the story about his journey to living as his authentic realized self as a gay man — and a married father. Hobson

Our Stories 24 Comments

THAT STORY THAT BEGAN AT THE POOL

Remember Brandon Rock, the narrator of My Love Affair With The Help (Read HERE), well, he’s  back with another real life encounter, and this one is just as steamy as

Our Stories 38 Comments

S.E.X: The Gay Alphabets?

Ah, my tormentor from the comments section, he with the acerbic things to say, the one, the only Chizzie has finally written something, 🙂 something real not fiction, that he

James' Journal 10 Comments

JAMES’ JOURNAL (Entry 1)

Here’s another series from yet another KDian, James. It’s not fiction. It’s a Dear Diary sort of write-up, one that will afford us glimpses into the life of a brother.

Our Stories 20 Comments

12 BANGS A SLAVE

He was a strapping young lad, sixteen years old. He worked in our house, not very smart looking. Just a kid with freckles doing manual things. He wore linen shorts

Our Stories 20 Comments

THAT ROMANCE THAT ENDED TOO SOON

It all started from my Facebook Catfish Account, you know, that Facebook account that belongs to you but bears a false identity and all your sexy, slutty pictures through which

The Happenings 16 Comments

What They Are Now Saying About US, Nigeria And The Anti-Gay Law

The picture below is a screen-grab of a friend’s phone chat. And the opinion expressed there was by an acquaintance of his. Read and let us know what you think.

Love And Sex In The City 19 Comments

LOVE AND SEX IN THE CITY (Episode 2)

Previously on Love And Sex In The City: Introducing Declan in the city of Lagos, on the day that followed the introduction of the anti-gay bill by the Nigerian Senate. His sexcapade

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UNFAITHFUL 2: BOYFRIEND

Gay models In my last Unfaithful article, I proposed a theory that maybe the reason most gay men find it difficult going mono is because we grew up without models