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I TOOK BACK MY POWER
“When somebody hurts you, they take power over you. If you don’t forgive them, then they keep the power.” — Diary of A Mad Black Woman I’m writing this
Dear KD: What Do I Do About My Boyfriend’s Cheating Girlfriend?
I have been dating my younger brother’s friend, who is bisexual, for about 5 months now. Before we started dating, he told me about his girlfriend, saying that they’d been
Zambia In A Gay Rights Row With The US Government | 47 Plead Not Guilty To Homosexuality Charge In Nigeria
In an escalating row over LGBT+ rights, the US ambassador to Zambia, Daniel Foote, has said he’s been threatened over his comments on the sentencing of a gay couple in
Opinion: Radical Trans Activists Are Tearing The LGBT Community Apart
Originally published on thepostmillennial.com Rachel McKinnon, a biological male, won the women’s 200-meter sprint at the Masters Track Cycling World Championships for the second year in a row last
Random Questions: About Grindr Hookups
After chatting with someone on Grindr for hours, you’re horned up as hell and ready to go. Then he gets to your place and you open the door to see
ONE WITH HIM
One hand is resting on the arm of the chair, the other droops loosely over the side, trailing on the ground. Eyes shut, head tilted back, tie loosened haphazardly around
The Zikoko Story Of The Nigerian Man Who Realized He Was Bisexual At Age 27
(Originally published on Zikoko) Zikoko’s Sex Life column reveals the 27-year-old man who had only ever had sex with women until last month. After unexpectedly making out with a
Public Notice: Request For Accommodation / Flat-mate
I am looking for an apartment in Lagos, possibly a brother in the community seeking a roomie. My budget is 250/300 thousand naira, and what I want is a brother
THE ABCs OF KITO (10 Guides To Your Hookup Security)
After more than five years of taking in the stories of victimized members of the online gay dating community, of being frustrated by the mistakes and encouraged by the miracles,
THE LIFE I DIDN’T SEE COMING
EDITOR’S NOTE: I am posting this today to commemorate World AIDS Day, which is on this day, December 1. It is the story of life after a certain death, and
