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Our Stories 15 Comments

I USED TO THINK ABOUT SEX WITH GOD

I used to think of what sex with the Devil would be like. Like actual real coitus. Would He have great stamina? Is he big? Or are these sensual qualities

The Happenings 2 Comments

Watch as Taron Egerton learns of a gay sex slang

Rocketman has premiered, and to celebrate, the film’s star, Taron Egerton stopped by Buzzfeed to engage in a rite of passage for sexually secure celebrities: the reading of the thirst

Our Stories 52 Comments

MY LOVE OF AN HOUR

Someone – a wise person, I can imagine – once said that only fools rush in where wise men tread. Maybe I was a fool; but I couldn’t help falling

Kito Stories 31 Comments

KITO ALERT! XXXVII

They work as a gang, operating in the environs of Zaira, Kaduna, Abuja and Kano. Their targets are usually – but not restricted to – non indigenes of the North,

Our Stories 27 Comments

LOVE IN THE BRAIN

The Abuja sun that afternoon was the scorching kind that makes you wonder if Jesus intends to end the world this time with fire and heat. It was pitilessly burning

Editor's Desk 7 Comments

The Minority Report on What It Means To Be Queer

Queer is a term that has gone through a number of routes of significance for the LGBT community. First it was a slur. Then it got reclaimed as a way

The Happenings 11 Comments

Nigeria’s films and video censors board has reportedly set up panels to ban Bobrisky movie

The National Film and Video Censors Board has reportedly set up some panels to analyse the recently released film titled ‘Bobrisky in Love’, which stars, well, Bobrisky. The movie was

Our Stories 14 Comments

22:30

5:26 – Woke up with a start. A nightmare. Far less frequent than they used to be. But still seems rather real. Annoyed because it’s not yet time for my

Dear KD 53 Comments

The Proposal: I Want A Lesbian For A Wife

Being a successful gay guy who’s on the downlow in Nigeria is a huge challenge. The persistent questions like “When will you marry?” “What are you waiting for?” “Your mates

Our Stories 10 Comments

TRUTH IS A CLAPBACK

It was about five years ago when a cousin of mine first harassed me with my sexuality. I don’t know if she felt that attempting to diminish what confidence I