Editor's Desk
Deola’s Corner (Edition 26)
It’s been a while since I have written on here. I have thought about coming out with a piece for a while, but I didn’t want to come back just
This Gay Culture of “Advising” Effeminate Gay Men To “Tone It Down” Has To Stop!
A Twitter netizen, a few days ago, decided to pass on some “advice” to the Nigerian gay community: advice targeted at the effeminate gay men in our community. (And I
MERRY CHRISTMAS, KDians
It is the season of love. Let no one tell you that yours is invalid. Love. Live. And celebrate being alive this season. Merry Christmas, KDians. Y’all made 2019 extra
ALL THE WAYS 2019 HAS GIVEN US LIFE
When we rode into this year on the waves of Kevin Hart’s Oscar controversy, we should have buckled our seats and braced ourselves for a very tempestuous year – one
PRESENTING LIKE A GIRL
FOREWORD: This piece is dedicated to boys like my friend, JBoy, boys who grew from boys to men with a strength that society forbids us from having. It’s incredible
HELLO FROM THE ROADSIDE
The most unexpected thing happened to me a few days ago. It had only ever happened to me once before, years ago, when I was so young and nubile in
Random Questions: About Grindr Hookups
After chatting with someone on Grindr for hours, you’re horned up as hell and ready to go. Then he gets to your place and you open the door to see
Public Notice: Request For Accommodation / Flat-mate
I am looking for an apartment in Lagos, possibly a brother in the community seeking a roomie. My budget is 250/300 thousand naira, and what I want is a brother
THE ABCs OF KITO (10 Guides To Your Hookup Security)
After more than five years of taking in the stories of victimized members of the online gay dating community, of being frustrated by the mistakes and encouraged by the miracles,
