Our Stories
What People Are Saying
A KDian sent me this. He was trolling through some blogs yesterday, and stumbled on a blogpost on SDK’s blog (you know, that blog owned by the woman that’s like
And Now He Knows
I have a story to tell. A few months ago, I opened up, in a joking manner, about my sexuality to one of my closest straight friends, he studies in
Speaking About Stereotypes: Those Things Straight People Get Wrong About Gay Men
Originally published on thetrentonline.com Acceptance of gay people doesn’t end with acceptance. It also includes post-acceptance sensitivity and awareness. Unfortunately, just because someone’s heart is in the right place doesn’t
FAIRYTALES ARE FOR VIRGINS
‘…He went on farther, and in the great hall he saw the whole of the court lying asleep, and up by the throne lay the king and queen. He continued
The World Health Organization Is Perpetuating Gay Stereotypes
By Patrick McAleenan, originally published on The Telegraph The World Health Organisation has recommended that all gay men take antiretroviral drugs to stop the spread of HIV, but surely education
IN PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS
I parked and climbed out of the car with a sigh. I’m not sure I can ever get used to this crazy Lagos traffic, especially around rush hour. I like
Forced To Fuck
FOREWORD: This is a very fantastic, university story that happened to my good friend, Lanre Swagg; I won’t mention the university where it happened; he asked me not to, I suppose,
MY PROBLEM…AND MY SOLUTION
Love is a tricky thing. It varies in intensity and in the specificity of emotions. It is sometimes the most beautiful thing in the world and, at other times, it’s
My Rebound Story
I still remember the first day I met Babangida. It was a sunny day, really hot. If you have ever lived or been to Gwagwalada on a sunny day, then
Why Are We Our Own Worst Enemies?
I normally don’t mix business with pleasure, so I keep relationships at work formal, knowing where the lines are and drawing them clearly. I am nowhere near perfect, but I
