Our Stories

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OFF THE TOP

I read EJ’s story about his first bottoming experience as a Top, and it stayed with me. Because I too have a story: about my first topping experience as a

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HERE AND AWAY

I have been in this on-again, off-again relationship and it is getting up to seven years now. Ivy and I started out as a committed couple when we were both

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ROCK BOTTOM

I’ve always played the role of Top in my sexual relationships. In fact, I am what one would call a Strict Top. However, the older I get, the less inclined

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THE ONES THAT GOT AWAY

Have you ever met someone and instantly liked them, even without so much as exchanging a word with them? You have no idea who they are, so you create your

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LOVE CANNOT AFFORD TO BE BLIND (The Pain And The Police)

I would first of all like to appreciate the wave of empathy that came my way from this community following the sharing of the story of my ordeal in the

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THE NEW YEAR BANG

My goodness, I was bored out of my mind, like, Heaven, help ME!!! I was so bored that I’d actually started taking note of how many corners in the ceiling

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LOVE CANNOT AFFORD TO BE BLIND

His name is Taiwo Olakunle Balogun – his actual names. I want you to know that name, remember that name, because you will come to associate the devil with that

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MIDNIGHT PLEASURES

I was already quite a sojourner before my thirteenth birthday, not by any design of mine; my dad was a police officer and also a very devote family man, which

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PRIDE AND THE DOLLARFICATION OF QUEERNESS

The thing with being subjected to queerphobic violence by a socially-constructed heterosexual majority group is that amidst the violence, you’re expected to accept the barest minimum from the ‘decent’ ones

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THE MANAGER

“Good afternoon, are you here to eat?” Those were the first words he said to me when I stepped inside the restaurant located in Wuse. I had a lunch date