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THE GREATEST GIFT

Life is very painful, isn’t it? I ask how you are doing, you smile and give me the typical Nigerian answer. “I’m fine”, in between large gulps of Lagos lagoon

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OUT AND OUT AGAIN

In 2014, at the age of 17, I was first outed to my family. I was in high school then, and quite active on Twitter. Back then, both my older

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My First Anal Sex Experience

I was just 17 and was about rounding up my secondary education. I was living with my mom and two sisters. I was quite a close friend to this guy,

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360 Degrees (Part 3)

This is an update on the story I told last year September, about my sexy barber. We called him Frank. An engineer with a side hustle as a barber. A

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THE BOYS IN THE VILLAGE

Recently, I moved back in with my parents in our village in one of the states in the Niger Delta, where I started a temporary job as I waited for

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‘The Minority Report Nigeria’ wraps up the year with a recap of all of 2018’s queerness

If Goodluck Jonathan was hoping to silence the Nigerian LGBT with the passage of the Same Sex Marriage Prohibition Law he passed in 2014, he failed woefully. It’s been four

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HOW CHRISTMAS MENDED MY BROKEN HEART

2016 was an eventful year, to say the least. After five years of being in a loving relationship, twenty days after my thirty-fifth birthday, it ended. My boyfriend called a

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When Monday Came To Bite Me In The Ass

Everything was going fine. Just fine. I had ordered Chinese with two stewed snails and he had gone for basic fried rice and chicken. Damn, he looked better in person

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ALL POWER BELONGS TO THE KONJI SPIRIT

Most queer folks would say they were molested, raped or seduced into homosexuality by some uncle, aunty, cousin, house help, friend, neighbor or family friend. I wouldn’t say that about

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How Can Loving Someone Be So Hard?

When I first noticed her, I did not really think much of her as she was one of the girls in a WhatsApp group I belong to. It is not