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Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 8)
[Click here for LESSON 7] LESSON 8 From the chapter, ‘Living A Double Life’, VA had this to say: “When you find people who are like you and you can
Handling Rejection
I could feel my hands clamming up. I braced myself. You’d have thought I was getting ready to jump out of a plane. Although I have done that before, and
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 7)
[Click here for LESSON 6] LESSON 7 From the chapter, ‘If You Want Lesbian, Go To Room 24’, RD says: “I am out to everyone at home. Hiding is not
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 6)
[Click here for LESSON 5] LESSON 6 From the chapter, ‘If You Want Lesbian, Go To Room 24’, RD says: “It has to be an agreement between both of us,
LIMP DICKS FROM WITHIN
We began chatting from Grindr even when I was in Lagos. Then, in Lagos, my Grindr would shuffle and contacts all the way from Abuja would appear on my interface.
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 5)
[Click here for LESSON 4] LESSON 5 From the chapter, ‘My Sexuality Is Just The Icing On The Cake’, OW has this to say: “There are times when I study
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 4)
LESSON 4 From the chapter, ‘Focusing On Joy’, NS says: “In all that you do, do not lose the practice of experiencing joy and creating it.” Joy is usually
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 3)
[Click here for LESSON 2] LESSON 3 From the chapter, ‘Love Is Not Wrong’, OF says: “I believe in God, but not religion. I think it divides people, and I
MY FIRST GAY PORN EXPERIENCE
Many years ago – I think I’d just left secondary school or I was still in school then, I can’t fully remember now – I was yet to see gay
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 2)
[Click here for LESSON 1] LESSON 2 From the chapter, ‘Love Is Not Wrong’, OF says: “I don’t have any close friends I am not out to. It is not
