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MY DISCOVERY
Sometime in April, I escorted some relatives to the market to get food stuffs. There I was, seated somewhere in the market, waiting for them to get done, when I
Pills And Potions
I sat in the boxy room, staring at the young woman lounging on the worn couch in front of me. She was clicking away at her phone, acting like she
“How often do we really consider the B in LGBT?” Bisexual Broadway actor Andy Mientus address the stigma
It’s Bisexual Awareness Week. To mark the occasion, Broadway actor Andy Mientus has written a lengthy but powerful Instagram post about the stigma many people still attach to bisexuality. The
LOVE…OR SOMETHING LIKE IT
Do you believe in love? Can you say when love happens? Are there rules of engagement in this thing called love? Does love conquer all? I am a romantic, and
The Conundrum Of Tops and Bottoms
When I first started discovering myself, knowing I was gay and what it meant to be gay, I had lots to deal with. I guess we all did. MOST of
THE ‘CAUSE’
The phrase the “cause” has slowly become an obtrusive term on Kito Diaries in recent months. It’s almost hard to miss when the issues of MGM and bisexuality are discussed.
RECONCILING FAITH AND SEXUALITY
I have wanted to write about this topic for a while but I have held back for a number of reasons. I do not want anyone to think I am
THAT CONVERSATION…AGAIN
Remember how Vhar had that conversation with his mother we all wish we’d have with our parents? Well, they’re conversing again. And this one is to die for! (Vhar! Let’s switch moms,
The Post That Makes A Case For Polyamorous Love
Polyamorous love. Is it all it’s cracked up to be? How could you possibly know until you’ve given it a try? Writer Jeff Leavell and his husband Alex have been
Chinelo Okparanta Gets Candid About Her Novel, ‘Under the Udala Trees’
I first heard about Ms. Okparanta’s novel earlier this year and the title Under the Udala Trees struck me, mostly because the udala fruit is one of my favorite seasonal
