Series (Non-Fiction)
RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 59)
I said I was going to do an article on staying safe while cruising online, but I have to renege on that promise for today and do it another time.
BEST OF BOTH WORLDS (Edition 2)
“Dear, there’s something I’ll like to tell you…” I said in the gloom after waking her up. My heart was rattling my ribcage. She sensed the seriousness in my voice
RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 58)
I was having a conversation with one of my closest friends the other day, we were talking about life in general, and somehow the conversation veered to the LGBT activism
KIZITO SPEAKS XXVI
Vince. You remember Vince, right? Vince, who gave me the ‘Baby, we need to talk’ breakup… Mmhmm, him! He gave me a phone call one afternoon – a very surprising
UP AND DOWN MEMORY LANE (Episode 9)
I meet Julius in October 2011. Before that meet, we had been online friends, chatting via 2go. He’d wanted to meet on several occasions, but I’d declined. Something about his
BEST OF BOTH WORLDS
The single story creates stereotypes, and the problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but that they are incomplete. They make one story become the only story. –
RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 57)
So a few days ago, I listened in on a long conversation in a Whatsapp group that I belong to. Someone (a straight man) was telling the story about his
UP AND DOWN MEMORY LANE (Episode 8)
“Asa,” he called. “Yes,” I answered, looking up from my open cupboard. “You dey mad.” I sighed and went back to my business. “Michael,” he called another day. Sensing he
THE DIARY OF A NIGERIAN FUCKBOY (Entry 12)
Dear Diary, I miss Tim. But I was still in the stage of anger and denial. As usual, I stayed away from any online activity for a while, just to
KIZITO SPEAKS XXV
Oh but I’m not a whore. Why do y’all say I am? Hmm. Yes I’ve had sex with a few men in my lifetime, dated a handful. You, check yourself?
