Tag "Family"

Our Stories 28 Comments

THE MEN WHO SLEEP WITH MEN

I graduated from the university in 2016 but couldn’t start my clearance immediately due to some departmental issues. So, I was at home, bored and frustrated about life. I am

Our Stories 11 Comments

DAMAGED

I was born in Lagos, to a very uptight, churchy, disciplinarian family. I was born when my father had access to a lot of money and my mother kept going

Our Stories 23 Comments

A Tiny Glimmer Of Hope

It was profoundly tough for me to write this, but I guess this is the only way I can find some release. My parents got divorced when I was just

James' Journal 29 Comments

IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 33)

December 7 My cousin knew I am gay long before any of my other family members knew. She is more of a sister than a cousin especially since she grew

Our Stories 15 Comments

IT SHOULD BE LOVE UNCONDITIONAL

I came out to my mother two months ago. The aftermath of that was a wrecking of our relationship, a pulling apart of our closeness – something that surprised me

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“YES, MOM, I’M GAY.” The Truth That Was A Long Time Coming

“My son, are you a gay?” That was the question I both expected and didn’t see coming from my Mother. In the recent past, whenever people asked me the question:

Our Stories 35 Comments

FOR THE LOVE OF A MAN

Four years ago, I was supposed to be married to this man who was out to his family, was very serious about settling down and was Canadian Nigerian. He was

Editor's Desk 2 Comments

Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 2)

[Click here for LESSON 1] LESSON 2 From the chapter, ‘Love Is Not Wrong’, OF says: “I don’t have any close friends I am not out to. It is not

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BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER

My aunt (my mother’s sister) got married and settled down in the town where I was growing up. Because my brothers and I grew up having a closer relationship with

The Happenings 8 Comments

“Family As Man and Woman Is The Only One.” Pope Francis says same-sex couples can’t be considered family

The leader of the Catholic Church shared his views on families and abortion at the Vatican this weekend. Pope Francis has said that same-sex couples cannot make real “families”. Speaking