Tag "Marriage"
HE THAT FINDETH A WIFE
“The first thing that is taken away from us as LGBTQ people is our spirituality, is God. ‘God hates fags.’ No, He doesn’t. Stop it.” – Billy Porter They
IN HER HUSBAND’S BED
A friend who knew that I have a thing for older men gave me Nduka’s Facebook ID and asked me to add him up. He’d spoken to Nduka about me
KITO DIARIES PRIZE FOR WRITING: NOT AT THE WARFRONT
Darkness. Total darkness. Not a single light in sight. It was like a continuous descent into a bottomless dark pit, and then she stopped falling and slowly crawled up the
KITO DIARIES PRIZE FOR WRITING: WHERE HAPPINESS IS ALL THAT MATTERS
When you get to Ifem’s late husband’s compound, you will see a crowd. Men, women and children will be gathered in front of the compound. They will be like balls
Dear KD: I Have Questions about Coming Out and Marriage
Remember my kito story, and how my mum asked me if I was gay and how I’m yet to give her an answer? Well, for a long time after that,
Wife Finds Out That The Man Her Husband Invited To Be Quarantined In Their Home Is His Lover
It turns out that while other people are maintaining social distance from their lovers, a Nigerian husband is inviting his own lover into his marital home so he can get
The Proposal: Is There Any Woman (Gay or Straight) Who’d Like To Have A Kid With A Gay Man?
I am a 33-year-old guy who is gay and wants to have children of my own. But I am faced with the challenge of marriage, because I don’t want it.
BEST OF BOTH WORLDS (To Tell Or Not To Tell: Part 2)
Because I am an unabashed fan of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, as I’ve always done in previous episodes, I’ll start this one by dropping this gem of a quote: “There are
BEST OF BOTH WORLDS (To Tell Or Not To Tell)
“I often make the mistake of thinking that something that is obvious to me is just as obvious to everyone else.” – Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie In the past, whenever
MY HAND IN MARRIAGE
Okay, I’m tired. I’m really, really, really tired of my family trying to set me up with husbands. Sometime last year, I made it clear to my parents that I
