James' Journal

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 35)

June 19 So, I’m going to get a bit personal than usual and carry you into a dark space that exists in my head. I’m not looking for suggestions or

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 34)

April 6 I said goodbye to Tomi (my boyfriend) a couple Sundays ago. He’d been on call at the hospital for two weeks, so it’s been falling on me to

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 33)

December 7 My cousin knew I am gay long before any of my other family members knew. She is more of a sister than a cousin especially since she grew

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 32)

November 23 Hello, guys… And hi Dimkpa. I read your comment on my last entry. My initial reaction was annoyance. But I decided to shelve that and see how true

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 31)

November 8 For a while now, people have been making fun of my belly. Or at least just drawing notice to it. I walk around without a shirt at home

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 30)

November 2 Hey guys! I’d usually start by apologising for being AWOL for such a long time, but I’m pretty certain I’d just do it again. So, there’s no need.

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IBK’s JOURNAL: Camp Stories 2

August 4 So camp has eased up. I would rather still be at home playing my Nintendo switch, and it hurts more because a game I have wanted to play

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IBK’s JOURNAL: Camp Stories

July 30 Hey gays and gworls! Let me start off by saying NYSC is a scam and the orientation camp is the scam within the scam. It’s a scam inception.

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 27)

June 30 I won’t say I’m depressed. I’ve seen depression… It’s not pretty. Depressed people can’t function. I’m functioning pretty alright. But I’ve got something. Something that feels like it’s

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IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 26)

June 22 There was a time I was an angry gay man. It lasted for about a week and I was out on social media lambasting every homophobe I could