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  1. ambivalentone
    November 25, 2016

    nice header picture. Very explanatory.😊🚶🚶

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  2. Dontdropthathun
    November 25, 2016

    Loud it for them pls 📣📣

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  3. Chizzie
    November 25, 2016

    Actually this is the one thing that irks me and I believe will be this blog’s ultimate waterloo. The fact that commenters are chastised or reprimanded for their comments. Might also explain the dwindling comments of late.

    Ive said this so many times, that what sets a blog apart is not so much it’s content but the interaction in its comment section. It is what draws ppl back, what goes viral, what ignites revolutions and what brings change; Also any adult with comprehension or common sense should know that just because something is said in the comments doesn’t mean it is fact or true.

    People need to realize first and foremost that this is a blog, not a kumbaya gathering for the homeless or whatever.

    Comments can be moderated if they are abusive or homophobic as it is the general rule of thumb. But dt should be where it ends. Don’t tell people what to comment or Mummy them over their comments!

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    • Mandy
      November 25, 2016

      Lol. Chizzie, don’t look too hard into your crystal ball. Cos the more you look, the less you’ll see. As a failed (but former) blogger, you ought to know that commenting isn’t an automatic translation of a blog’s longevity. All you people insinuating KD’s failure everyday in your comments will wait a long long time for that to happen. 😛
      #KD3YearsAndStillWinning #RideOnPP

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      • Pink Panther
        November 25, 2016

        Lol @ Mandy. Well, people will say anything to get you to cave and leave the path you’ve ordered for your progress to do it their own way. I endeavour to not let their presumptions bother me. My role is keep doing what I’m doing and ignore the background noise.

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      • Mandy
        November 25, 2016

        👍👍👍 Stick to your own formular and it’ll pay off. Don’t mind hypocrites who’ll today preach against those bashing Bobrisky for being true to himself and tomorrow castigate Denola Grey for being too girly.

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  4. Mitch
    November 25, 2016

    Truer sentiments have not been shared to my knowledge this week!

    We have a responsibility to build each other up, not tear down.

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  5. Mandy
    November 25, 2016

    I was kind of expecting this. The thing is, Peak, the joke that day wasn’t really about effeminacy. It was about celebrity. We weren’t setting an example for the taunting of femme guys. We were following the order of society where celebrities are a target for the humour and interest of the commoners. It’s not fair but that’s what it is. That’s why there are paparazzi and tabloids, to see how far the public can take down these stars who’ve climbed so high. It’s what everyone does, including you, when it comes to everything celebrity. Guess what: fashion police is exactly like this; speculating on celebrity relationships, weighing in on their breakups, bashing their stage performances, mocking their public antics… these all fall into this category. Because it crossed lines with effeminacy doesn’t mean it was an LGBT thing. It was simply a celebrity thing.
    It’s just that simple. Not deep at all.
    PS: If tomorrow, some ‘masculine’ jackass comes on KD to denigrate femme guys, I’ll still roast him and not feel like a hypocrite.

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    • Canis VY Majoris
      November 25, 2016

      “We were following the order of society where celebrities are a target for the humour and interest of the commoners.”

      That’s how Donald Trump won the election. Keep it up.

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      • Mandy
        November 25, 2016

        Everything now has a Donald Trump parallel. Pretty soon, one will drink water and drop cup and yall will find a way to relate it to a Donald Trump win.

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      • Canis VY Majoris
        November 25, 2016

        Well it is recent and astonishing, of course it will have its moment in the sun, until something else overshadows it; fact of life & the same principle applies….whatever we resist, persists.

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    • Peak
      November 25, 2016

      @Mandy, your said joke could easily have been what you called it…”a celebrity thing”. Unfortunately, ur celebrity thing would have been just that if it wasn’t dependent on the variable of effeminacy. Effeminacy became the qualifier and what made a not issue, a viral gist. So rationalise ur involvement all you want, but it doesn’t take away from the fact that KD has no place poking and making fun of issues that are peculiar to it’s readership. KD is biggerthan all of us as should set an example because we are all watching and following.

      @ PP I love love love ur picture of choice **clapping** what a show of class.

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  6. Delle
    November 25, 2016

    The thing is you think Peter was being taunted for his feminine posture in that picture post, but I doubt that’s what happened. If for anything, he was being appraised (from the lot I read) for his nonchalance and courage. Others made a joke about how the man with him could be his sugar daddy. That in itself isn’t denigrating. They are just plastic humour based comments.

    No one castigated his physical disposition. Calm down already. I wouldn’t be caught dead throwing cuss words at a supposed feminine man(hows that even rational?).

    I believe the true reason the post was put up was lost on you.
    Well this drew out an entry from you, wasn’t all cons then.

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  7. Haiku
    November 25, 2016

    Too much noise

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  8. Chuck
    November 25, 2016

    People in the closet should be lionized because? What are they doing that is so brave? Hiding?

    This is the peak of hypocrisy.

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    • Mandy
      November 25, 2016

      Very clever ending to your comment. 😂😂😂😂

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    • Mandy
      November 25, 2016

      But Chuck, are you out of the closet? #justasking

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      • Chuck
        November 25, 2016

        Yes I am. But even if I wasn’t, I wouldn’t think being in the closet was brave.

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    • Peak
      November 25, 2016

      “When someone wants to remain in the closet, I think it’s a DECISION that should be lionized and not snatched out of their hands.”

      There Chuck! The actual quote.

      It’s public knowledge that you struggle with comprehension, so I took the liberty to quote myself appropriately, seeing that you are upto ur old tricks of fabricating things.

      And incase u are struggling with the meaning of “lionize”, “honour or respect ” are close alternatives.

      Knowing you, you will find another blear angle to push. So I will do you a solid and break it down to the simplest example possible.
      KD is pretty much a closeted blog, and every idea to take it from an underground to mainstream blog has been shut down by its administrator and commenters who are its stakeholder. Respecting, honouring, celebration their DECISION is what it means to lionize…their DECISION.

      You are welcome.

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      • Chuck
        November 25, 2016

        You’re mistaken about the meaning of lionized.

        Here it is:

        give a lot of public attention and approval to (someone); treat as a celebrity.

        Your arguments are inconsistent, illogical and invalid.

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  9. Colossus
    November 25, 2016

    Make I go see the post wey make Oga peak write this epistle

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  10. z
    November 25, 2016

    at a point in my life some years back, I felt I was the only one who was attracted to guys. I knew nobody who was like me in that aspect. going online and reading about celebrities who were gay even though closeted made me believe that there were very successful actors, business men, doctors, lawyers, scientists etc who were also attracted to same sex and I knew I could become one of them someday. my point perhaps is that talking about such things actually has helped lots of us realise that we are not alone and there are others like us out there who are quite successful and apparently doing well with their lives.
    on another note, I do not believe there is such a thing as bad publicity. these people are in the spotlight and thrive from their names being in the news every other minute. so trust me I do not believe the gossip might hurt them as much as you think.
    whew! I didn’t know I could write a comment this long.

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  11. Francis
    November 25, 2016

    @Peak you do realize it’s major hypocritical to say this kain “bashing” is okay on personal groups but not on this platform. Doesn’t make any sense to me at all.

    I just think you guys are making noise over nothing. Even effeminate peeps are laffing over the matter sef. Biko live a little.

    If you don’t want to be publicly scrutinized, get a job outside TV. Simple. I find it annoying when celebs bitch about loss of privacy etc. Bitch you signed up for that ish. Thank God for the likes of Adele that doesn’t give a shit and comes and goes as she pleases.

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  12. Jide
    November 25, 2016

    But really, Peak, is all this necessary? You’ve succeeded in resurrecting a forgotten issue while reminding everyone that you’re a know-it-all and a bore.

    How do your real life friends cope with this your “I must always be right” attitude? I used to respect you but with every irrelevant argument you take on, that respect has started to wane.

    No one likes a know-it-all, not every time frown, sometimes smile.

    Check yourself before you wreck yourself, Pal.

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  13. pankar
    November 25, 2016

    Snce when did effeminacy become a bad thing? And the post in question? Its comments were largely based on individual speculations, not facts as someone rightly said. It was clearly for fun.

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  14. Bryce
    November 27, 2016

    This blog used to be a serious one,where real life issues affecting people are discussed.
    Now,it’s just a little bit above a gossip rag.
    Such a shame

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  15. Bryce
    November 27, 2016

    And that header picture?.
    Quite petty of you,admin

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