HERE IS WHERE MY STORY BEGINS

I was on Grindr looking for a quick hookup. After spending some time without much success, I decided to log out but not before a message came in. I quickly went through his profile and his photos were blank. I usually ignore messages that come from blank profiles, but on this day, I decided to indulge him. We went through

What About The Gays In Our Parents’ Generation?

You know how you’ll start thinking one thing, and then it’ll cascade and before you know it, you’re ending up in a different thought process than the one you started with? Well, that’s how it started. I recently engaged on a tweet where a woman was rather obnoxiously talking about the virtues of marriage and lecturing women who want to

THE WAIT TO CUSTOMER SERVICE

It was a really hot day with the scorching sun seemingly hanging just two feet above my head, reminding me of the reason why I need to make paradise, because after all this travail on earth, imagine then getting dumped into a pit of unending fire. Not cool! I was making my way to the express road to take public

THE OGBANJE YOU SEE

Well, this is a first. A hookup comes over to my place. I go to meet him at the junction, and as we walk back to my house, he glances at my arms and sees my tattoo. He points at it, saying, “Is that a tattoo?” “Yes,” I say with a nod. “Let me see.” I stretch out my hand

A NIGERIAN FROM GRINDR

We met on Grindr. His name is X. After a brief conversation, we moved to WhatsApp. We conversed for a bit there, firming up our acquaintanceship. When I mentioned that I was sorting through my late father’s things, trying to decide what to give away, he suggested donating them to an orphanage close to where he stays. I’d given to

THE WORLD IS A VILLAGE

2017. To be honest, it had already been a rather dramatic year for me. There were quite a number of discoveries I made about myself. It was the year I had my first threesome (even though I ended up sharing condoms to the other two guys and was the self-appointed lube applier). It was the year I decided to play

THE PROPOSAL: Two Queer Men Are Looking For Partners For Marriage

Hi, my name is Sunday and I’m 36 Years old, a food caterer and an entrepreneur. I am Christian, Bisexual and HIV+ Undetectable. I am searching for a Femme Lesbian who is interested in getting married. She could be Christian or Muslim (I’m not really particular about the religion), Yoruba or Igbo, between the ages of 24 – 32 years,