MY NAME IS DIMEJI (Part 6)

“Look for the signs.” That is what they say. There was this analogy, that it is when a person wants a G Wagon that they start seeing G Wagons everywhere. It’s not that there are more G Wagons on the planet; they just weren’t looking before. This is meant to mean that if you don’t look for the sign, you

#StopRape: Can We Talk About The Nigerian Rapists Who Threaten Lesbians with Corrective Rape?

We are in a watershed moment, when Nigeria’s rape culture is once again the focus of societal outrage. Following the rape and murder of Uwa Omozuwa, there have been intense conversations surrounding rape on the social media. The horrors keep on piling up: the rape of a 6-year-old girl, the gang rape of 12-year-old Tina Ezekwe, the rape and murder

JustFor.Fans takes down porn star Billy Santoro’s account following his racist “Shoot First” post on Facebook

Billy Santoro took to Facebook to write, “Lol. America! Lol you let your blacks loot as a way of protest. Wake the fuck up. Shoot first.” A screenshot of it was shared on Twitter and needless to say, it triggered a backlash on social media. Responding to the backlash, JustFor.Fans, one of the platforms where Santoro shared his sex videos,

ONE BAD TURN (Part 2)

Previously on ONE BAD TURN… * When I was in school, I was into the cosmetic business. I produced perfumes, soap and air freshener and sold to a customer base that I’d started to grow with each year that passed during my education. So, a week had passed since Nduka kept trying to get me to visit him in Umuahia,

Porn star Ben Masters tries to use discrimination against him for being gay as justification for his racism

CockyBoys performer, Ben Masters, posted—and then deleted and tried to walk back—a racist video, but not before it was captured and shared on Twitter. The video started with a story about a trip to the liquor store, and quickly escalated with statements like this: “I know that it sucks that not everyone is treated equal, but also like, I’m not

ONE BAD TURN (A Kito Story)

It happened some years ago. It’s a story I have been keeping to myself. But I feel like telling it now. It was in 2012 at Abia State University, Uturu. I was running my second degree program; I’d already done my first degree at Ebonyi State University, and was working with a bank in Kaduna before applying for my second

14 Signs That Show He’s Really Into You

Originally published on Pride.com   Deciphering whether or not he likes you back can be really hard to do. We’ve all been there. You’ve been on a date (or two) and you really like him. But does he like you back? Is he just texting back to be nice, or is he into you too? It can make you go