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Our Stories 24 Comments

Who’s Afraid of MGMs?

A lot of woke, self-accepting gay men are notoriously averse to the idea of gay men or those who they believe are gay men (some are bisexuals) announcing their marriage

The Happenings 8 Comments

Lagosian reveals he was arrested by the police for being “too slim” and “looking gay”

Lagos-based hair stylist, Idowu Oluwatosin Olakunle, recently underwent a harrowing instance of police brutality. His crime? Apparently he was “too slim” and “looked gay”. In an account which he posted

Editor's Desk 6 Comments

How Would You Honestly Handle Running Into Your Ex With His New Man?

I recently watched this new short film, Something New, which stars Ben Baur (Hunting Season, Something like Summer) as Jonah, a guy who struggles to open up to a new

Our Stories 25 Comments

GROWING UP GAY IN THE BOARDING SCHOOL

When I hear stories about boarding schools that severely penalize homosexual acts between students, where there are even students who act as snitches, ratting out to the school authorities those

Gallery 16 Comments

#ManCrushMonday: Forget Yusuf Buhari. Say Hello To Usman Shagari

Sometime in May, 2015, the world of Nigerians stopped when the son of then Presidential-elect, Muhammadu Buhari, stepped into the scene and held our attention hostage. Now, especially after the

The Happenings 0 Comments

Grindr briefly went down last week and users went on a meltdown

It was a rough past week for Grindr. First, the app tried rolling out a new voice messaging feature, but the public’s response wasn’t exactly positive: Then on Tuesday, the

Fiction 16 Comments

The Siren Call

There is a wisdom that comes from having your heart broken more times than the number of beers you’ve downed in your lifetime. It’s like Archimedes and the damned crown.

The Happenings 11 Comments

“I Don’t Shake Homosexuals Like You.” Denrele Edun suffers homophobic abuse

Media personality, Denrele Edun, recently updated on Instagram an account of homophobic abuse he suffered. On the post that captured a picture he took with friends, which he captioned “I

Opinion Pieces 15 Comments

10 Reasons Why Your Relationships Don’t Last Longer Than 3 Months

Three months of dating a guy may not seem like a long time, but for some of us, it’s the longest relationship we’ve ever had. So if you find yourself

Our Stories 17 Comments

A WHOLE NEW WORLD FOR THE NEW GIRL

So, my gist continues from my time with the intersex boo. Thanks to her, man was still cold and I was still looking. I wasn’t looking, looking, but man, I