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FINDING DIMEJI (PART 2)
Previously on FINDING DIMEJI… * After the awkward experience with his mother, Dimeji and I began to relate freely once again. Weirdly, we grew even closer and practically inseparable following
The Minority Report on Whether Leaving Nigeria Is A Solution
“If you want to be gay in peace, leave the country. Leave Nigeria!!!” This sentiment is often expressed by homophobes and even gay people alike whenever the conversation of gay
Ever Wondered What It’s Like To Be A Gay Porn Star In Nigeria?
This piece was originally published on Dazed Digital In a country where homophobia is still deeply enshrined in law, gay adult actors are finding ways to navigate the risks of
There’s A SCAM Being Perpetuated On Grindr!
The first time a KDian told me about this Grindr scam (where you are approached on Grindr by someone wanting you to click on a link that will register you
A ‘Mostly Top’ Guy learns a tough lesson about cancelling on your Bottom
A guy who identifies as “mostly top” found the shoe on the other foot after he spent hours preparing for bottoming, only to receive nothing but excuses. Andy, a marketing
FINDING DIMEJI
“I don’t know where Dimeji is, sir,” I said in a low tone. It was a lie. “What do you mean by that? Are you not his boyfriend?” Mr. Adeleke
Tweet of the Day: About The Pain of Coming Out
I do not know the story of Emmanuel Sadi’s coming out (and I do so hope that one day, he’ll have overcome the pain well enough to tell the story
About The 2018 Egbeda Police Raid And The Broken Lives Of Nigerian Anti-Gay Law Suspects
This piece was originally published on The Wider Image The 57 men stumbled out of the back of a dark police truck into the glare of a sunny courtyard
THE UNEXPECTED BOTTOMING
So, first off, I am a straight woman and I’ve been an active subscriber of Kito Diaries for a very long time. I’ve got such love for the queer community,
Gay People in Iran are being forced to undergo Gender Reassignment Surgery for This Despicable Reason
Iran has been accused of forcing hordes of gay people to have gender reassignment surgery in an attempt to rid the country of homosexuality. While the Islamic Republic legalized
