Random Questions XVII
In one of his entries, Dennis Macaulay stated categorically that he cannot stay friends with his exes; according to him, once the relationship is over, he’s done with the ex.
Someone like me, on the other hand, cannot wrap my head around how I can suddenly cut off from he who I’ve once loved or shared much intimacy with. I have had exactly four serious relationships in my life, and with the exception of my last boyfriend, I have stayed friends with all my exes. Perhaps, I’m able to retain my friendship with these guys because none of the breakups were rancorous.
But someone like Dennis says he doesn’t care the circumstance of the breakup: once done is done.
But hey, that’s just the two of us. What about y’all? Could you be friends with your ex?
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12 Comments
Santa Diaba
October 29, 04:14My answer in a sentence :
“Don’t be his friend you know you’re gonna wake up in his bed in the morning “
Pink Panther
October 29, 04:23I don’t understand.
Francis
October 29, 10:18? ? ? ? I got new rules, I count ’em
McDuke
October 29, 07:19I use to be of the opinion that I can be friends with my ex but right now, my relationship with two of them is damaged and this could have been avoided if I had moved on from them completely. So I think you can be friends but it’s best to keep them at arm’s length and avoid sex with them completely…any form of sex at all.
pete
October 29, 07:37It depends on how acrimonious the breakup was. For me, it’s no big deal. I only had one boyfriend and we are still in good terms. I now see him as an elder brother, so no chance of us ever having sex again.
BRYAN PETERS
October 29, 07:45It all depends on the circumstances surrounding the break up
quinn
October 29, 07:49Why the hell not? Shit happens.
Canis VY Majoris
October 29, 15:29What has the living got to do with the dead?
Wonda Buoy
October 29, 20:57Wawu!!! Isn’t that too harsh?
kingB
October 29, 16:20I’ve never been in a relationship so can’t say . Pray i get into one next year when i’ll be turning 24. im tired of the loneliness.
Bradley
October 29, 18:38I stay friends with my exes. Depending on the nature of the breakup I think the sudden hatred could be immature.
Cleopatro
October 29, 20:42it’s difficult really.