Grindr is no longer ‘men-only’ as update adds support for women and trans people
Grindr has added options to cater for women and transgender people as well as gay men.
The hook-up app, which has traditionally been for gay men, rolled out the changes this week to become trans-inclusive.
The changes allow users to add their gender identity to their profiles, with a number of options available – including ‘woman’, ‘trans woman’,’ ‘non-binary’, ‘non-conforming’ and ‘queer’.
Users can also specify the pronouns they use on their profile, including ‘he/him’, ‘she/her’ and ‘they/them’.
A release explained that the app has introduced “system-wide gender-neutral language”, despite its traditional audience of “gay, bi, curious and queer men”.
The app has long included a “transgender” category frequented by trans women, but the official change in policy to include women marks the official end of the app’s men-only stance.
The site has also launched an FAQ to help non-transgender users “interact respectfully”.
The guide, written in consultation with the National Center for Transgender Equality, warns users “to avoid making assumptions” about the genitals of the person they are chatting to.
It adds: “Many trans people are asked questions about what surgeries they’ve had all the time, and often the people asking are being inappropriate and have no business knowing about their genitals. This constant sexual harassment can have a profound negative effect on a person.
“Before you ask a trans person about surgeries, ask yourself whether you’re in a situation in which you’d ask a cis person about their genitals.
“Of course, if people are discussing a potential hook up, it might be an appropriate time to ask. But even if it is, asking something else that’s broader like ‘What are you into sexually’ may open the door to the discussion without associating you with the people who ask in an offensive way.”
It advises users to “stay open to whatever an individual might say they enjoy.”
The guide continues: “Some trans people may use words that are new to you altogether. For example, a trans man might refer to their front hole. Getting these words wrong could result in hurt feelings and a failure to connect so it’s always a good idea to ask.”
Grindr implemented the update to users worldwide at the end of Transgender Awareness Week, and brought on transgender activist, writer, actress, and producer, Jen Richards, to feature in a new video promoting the changes.
Peter Sloterdyk, VP of Marketing at Grindr: “As the largest global queer social network, Grindr has always had trans men, trans women, and non-binary users on the app. We are proud to release these updates to our core functionality to firmly establish that we are committed to making Grindr a welcome and safe space for all trans people.
“To ensure we heard from a range of trans people, we polled trans users and consulted transgender community leaders to guide our thinking.”
Jack Harrison-Quintana, Director of Grindr for Equality said: “One thing we heard over and over again from trans people using Grindr was that they felt unwelcome as other users would often only want to ask them about what it means to be trans or approached without knowing how to speak respectfully about trans issues.
“That’s why we created written resources linked from the gender identity fields in the profile to answer users’ questions and decrease that burden on trans people.”
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6 Comments
Mandy
November 23, 18:02Someone will now say Grindr is being politically correct ??
Ikenna
November 24, 08:06Never knew there was a difference between Gay and Queer..
Pink Panther
November 24, 09:20There is. Queer is not as specific as gay. It’s a lot more ambiguous.
Wonda Buoy
November 24, 14:26This is how Grindr and Badoo became one and only. ?
quinn
November 24, 14:29Are we cool w this?
arming
December 17, 07:33cool w/ the trans part but not the women part. over the past 7-8 years, straight women have decided that they need to invade every single aspect of gay men’s lives. Really?