Dear KD: I Am Looking For A Woman To Get With

Dear KD: I Am Looking For A Woman To Get With

I have had an increasing attraction towards women for a long time now. I hid it in a deep part of my mind and I never gave it a time of day. But lately I can’t stop thinking about what it would feel like to be with a lady.

In line with my personality, once my mind is fixated on something, it never lets up. I can’t be the only one in Lagos who has these fantasies, hence the search for a kindred spirit.

However, it turns out it is hard to figure out if a lady is into you in Lagos. Or maybe, I do not move in the right circles.

 

The criteria are simple. I’m hoping to get with a lady who is:

Aged 30 – 45, working-class with a good job. No students or NYSC ladies.

Not married or in a serious relationship. It is not me you will use to cheat on your partner.

Tall, slim and attractive. That’s the kind of woman I am attracted to. And I am not bad in the looks department either.

Above average intelligence and a fantastic conversationalist. Not every time, sex.

Ready to fulfill any lesbian fantasy imaginable.

 

I live in Lekki, and so, I am partial to ladies living within Lekki and environs. And I am very, very discreet.

A little about me: I am a 32-year-old upwardly-mobile, extreme introvert, who enjoys and can afford the simple pleasures life has to offer. I have no desire to get married, but I would like to adopt a kid when I am ready. My sexual orientation has nothing to do with my aversion towards marriage, but that is a story for another day. And I adopt a hedonistic approach towards life.

Interested? Please send an email to onelagosbabe@gmail.com and we can take it from there.

Thank you.

Submitted by Lagos Babe

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