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Two Queer Lagosians: One Needs A Marital Contract and The Other A Flatmate

This post is about two queer men who are offering a co-parenting arrangement and accommodation. Check them out.   1. I am Kizz, and I am in my 30s, a

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THE SPITE OF THE NIGERIAN GAY MAN

His name is Abubakar Malaika, popularly known as Zamani. We first met in 2018 in Lagos. We got so close that he even got to spend some time in my

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Lil Nas X Comments On Rema’s Instagram Post, And Homophobic Nigerians Have A Meltdown

Rapper Lil Nas X is having a moment internationally, from the controversy stoked by his chart-topping single, MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name), to the reactions that came in the

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THE ONES THAT GOT AWAY

Have you ever met someone and instantly liked them, even without so much as exchanging a word with them? You have no idea who they are, so you create your

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Lil Nas X Fires Back At Criticism Over Him Kissing Male Dancer at BET Awards

Lil Nas X is defending his BET Awards performance. On Sunday, June 27, the 22-year-old singer set the stage ablaze at the ceremony, where he sang his hit song, Montero

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Porn Star Pierce Paris Calls For Performers To Stop Starving Themselves

Adult film performer Pierce Paris took to Twitter earlier this week to announce a special PSA to anyone who is about to bottom on film: Stop starving yourselves! In a

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LOVE CANNOT AFFORD TO BE BLIND (The Pain And The Police)

I would first of all like to appreciate the wave of empathy that came my way from this community following the sharing of the story of my ordeal in the

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THE NEW YEAR BANG

My goodness, I was bored out of my mind, like, Heaven, help ME!!! I was so bored that I’d actually started taking note of how many corners in the ceiling

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Dear KD: I Need Your Participation In This Survey Regarding Health Management In Nigeria

Hello dear friend, I am a Medical Personnel and Public Health Enthusiast. I am currently carrying out a Survey aimed at evaluating the knowledge, attitude and practice of caregivers and

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LOVE CANNOT AFFORD TO BE BLIND

His name is Taiwo Olakunle Balogun – his actual names. I want you to know that name, remember that name, because you will come to associate the devil with that