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TWICE BEATEN, THREESOME SHY
So, I tried the threesome thing once again. The first time I did was a total waste: ended up sharing condoms and ensuring the two active participants didn’t run out
STAND UP AND WALK
“Are you effeminate?” “I hope you don’t do like a woman…” These are the questions anyone who gets around on the dating/hookup block would usually get. Different people deal with
Uche Jombo’s ‘Social Media Slays’ And The Life We Know
Through some WhatsApp interactions, I got to learn of a new web series produced by the actress, Uche Jombo, which shows on Nvivo TV. And as these things are wont
THE DARK SIDE OF MIDNIGHT
Bruce was bottom. And I had bottomed most of my gay life. He was a month older. But I had more experience out of life than he did We were
This Gay Culture of “Advising” Effeminate Gay Men To “Tone It Down” Has To Stop!
A Twitter netizen, a few days ago, decided to pass on some “advice” to the Nigerian gay community: advice targeted at the effeminate gay men in our community. (And I
“HELLO.” AND THE FRUITS OF SHOOTING YOUR SHOT
Putting yourself out there online for one to get interested in you, for magic to happen, for a hookup to be actualized is – I’ve come to realize – hard
THE SEX OF THE MAN WITH A BIG DICK
Sometime ago, I was reading on a foreign blog a story about the tendency for white gays to fetishize big dicks, especially big black dicks. It was something I found
PRESENTING LIKE A GIRL
FOREWORD: This piece is dedicated to boys like my friend, JBoy, boys who grew from boys to men with a strength that society forbids us from having. It’s incredible
HELLO FROM THE ROADSIDE
The most unexpected thing happened to me a few days ago. It had only ever happened to me once before, years ago, when I was so young and nubile in
The Zikoko Story Of The Nigerian Man Who Realized He Was Bisexual At Age 27
(Originally published on Zikoko) Zikoko’s Sex Life column reveals the 27-year-old man who had only ever had sex with women until last month. After unexpectedly making out with a
