Lesbian opens up about what it’s like to be Muslim and gay
A woman has opened up about how it is to be a lesbian and Muslim.
Zayna, 40, spoke to the Manchester Evening News to say she had been beaten, threatened and humiliated because she is gay.
She did not deny her true identity despite the abuse she had received before moving from Pakistan to the UK.
While studying for her PhD, Zayna said she was kicked out of university because fellow students said they thought she was “dangerous”. At an Islamic school, she said she was forced by fellow staff to leave or face police action. She had started a relationship with a fellow teacher. And the staff said they would be reported to police as prostitutes if they did not end their relationship and leave.
Of an incident where her father abused her for spending time with another teenager, she said: “My father came upstairs and wanted to kill me and beat me like anything. He told me how to behave. That was the first time I felt unsafe in my own home. I still have that horrible pain in my lower back and can’t walk properly.”
Zayna says she is still a practising Muslim and that her sexuality and her religion are both important to her.
She said: “I was born a Muslim and I want to die a Muslim. But if someone wants to kill me, then why? Just because I’m a lesbian? I am a strong brave person but so many people like me don’t have that courage. I realised I needed to come out and tell everyone about my story.”
She now lives in Manchester, UK, and speaks out on behalf of LGBT+ Muslims.
Zayna grew up in Karachi, Pakistan, and her parents were conservative Muslims with no other children. Her parents are now deceased.
She describes herself as a tomboy, and says she realised she is gay when she turned 13. She says it was “very hard” and that she was told “you are not Muslim if you are a lesbian”.
Going on, she also says she thinks the Quran’s message about homosexuality has been misinterpreted. She now says she feels calm because she is able to have relationships without fear of persecution.
About author
You might also like
Caitlyn Jenner Reveals She’s Had Gender Reassignment Surgery in New Memoir
Much of Caitlyn Jenner’s transition has been up for public consumption, but the Olympian managed the seemingly impossible: She underwent gender reassignment surgery in January of this year, and nobody
Watch as Taron Egerton learns of a gay sex slang
Rocketman has premiered, and to celebrate, the film’s star, Taron Egerton stopped by Buzzfeed to engage in a rite of passage for sexually secure celebrities: the reading of the thirst
Photos: All The Purple and the Men at Banky W’s Traditional Wedding to Adesua Etomi
So singer Banky W and actress Adesua Etomi have wedded traditionally. At the wedding, hashtagged #BAAD2017, there was of course a heavy celebrity presence, the men which included Segun and
4 Comments
Johnny
November 05, 07:37Live and let’s live.
beejay
November 05, 07:38I say everyone must discover their own truth and learn live with it. It’s sad how people think that simply because they’ve learnt to live a certain way, everyone must automatically do the same.
KingB
November 05, 09:00It beggars my imagination too. Live and let’s live.
quinn
November 05, 12:51Reminds me of Bisi Alimi. Things are definitely going to change