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  1. sinnex
    November 23, 2018

    Interesting.

    Only few people can understand what you feel.

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  2. Sharp
    November 23, 2018

    They will soon use you for ritual… Be there falling in love… mitschewwww

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    • Bhawscity
      November 23, 2018

      This early morning? Haha naa!! If you haven’t been there, you won’t know!
      Almost the same as loving someone you know that won’t ever notice you sef.

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    • Facade
      November 23, 2018

      How can you equate crushing on someone to loving someone that hurt n blackmailed you in the past n never apologized for it?
      Assuming dubem apologized n now he’s having all these feeling, I would’ve understood what he’s feeling

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    • Bebe
      November 25, 2018

      Bless you. He has seen dick and fine body and has gotten confused again. Mere onwe gi ebere

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  3. Bhawscity
    November 23, 2018

    He might be gay or bi at least but did what he did because of peer pressure. He wouldn’t want to be the odd ball in his clique, so he had to improvise. If you haven’t gotten over the abuse, I suggest you get his number and talk to him about it, a scolding talk down if necessary.

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    • Pink Panther
      November 23, 2018

      The ending part of your comment, I agree with completely. Song Taehee needs to make that Dubem confront what he did to him. Unless he has no interest in furthering their friendship. But if there’s going to be any future where they’re still in each other’s lives, Dubem has got to apologize. They need to talk about what he did to Song.

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      • Bhawscity
        November 23, 2018

        Huny, even if they don’t want to have a friendship(they might because it would be weird if the landlord comes home and starts acting weird for one of his tenants), he should address it. I know first hand what such situations entails(story for another day shaa).

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    • Facade
      November 23, 2018

      Bhawscity How can you seriously have this assumption for someone who held a knife to ur neck, blackmailed you, robbed you n this was after he pretended to be your friend for quite sometime and NEVER apologized for what he did when you guys finally reconnected?

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    • Patrick
      November 23, 2018

      No Bhawscity.
      There’s not even the slightest indication that Dubem is gay or Bi. His rationale for inviting Song Taehee to bed was that he had shared bed with several guys. He didn’t even collect his number. He had not seen the author in years and he didn’t even collect his number. Not a good sign there Taehee.
      Whatever you do, make sure to confront him with what he did. And don’t be surprised if you don’t get an apology.

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  4. Chiedozie
    November 23, 2018

    See ehn, all man and his own. People thrive on and nourish dysfunction for their own reasons, or lack thereof.
    I can’t imagine staying the night at the hotel room of someone who’d hurt and betrayed me like this, except it’s to maul him in the middle of the night. Just hope for his sake he doesn’t get hurt again, or worse.

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  5. Queen Blue Fox
    November 23, 2018

    I totally understand this. Because not so long ago I’ve actually had sex with someone who blackmailed me for a while till I fought back when i was in my second year in Uni. We were classmates in secondary school. After the incident he begged for my forgiveness from 2012 till 2017 this year when we finally fucked. We have again sinc too.
    And guess what I made him confront what happened and I realized I was a means of survival at that time but he has come alomg way in recent times.

    So in essence this friendship or whatever you two are gonna have can only work if you confront the past and know where you two stand.

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    • KingBey
      November 27, 2018

      Really?

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  6. Jinchuriki
    November 23, 2018

    Song Teehee. It’s okay to still have those feelings. Don’t be ashamed that you still lust after Dubem. A lot of people won’t understand what it’s like, but I get it. Be careful though, he’s still capable of repeating another Kito incident.

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  7. Arinze
    November 23, 2018

    I can see how anger can dull after years but for it to entirely disappear? That’s something. I can also understand forgiveness, but this Dubem guy did not even act as though he remembers and is sorry for his violent past action and yet he boldly asks the dude to sleep over. That is the first sign of toxicity. The other sign is the intentional uncertainty that he threw this guy into, strutting naked and disappearing without making a move. That in itself is manipulative, tilts the power further to his side because you become confused in your desire and so he can do with it what he wants, even if he decides to fuck you. This is how abusive relationships begin, and by abusive I mean mental abuse (maybe physical too). The fact of their past makes this last point even more fraught.

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  8. Keredim
    November 23, 2018

    “He might be gay or bi at least…..”

    Or he could be straight & comfortable with his sexuality and has no qualms about waving his dick in front of other men.

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    • Patrick
      November 23, 2018

      Very True. This, I think, is the most probable situation.
      We all want the hot straight men in our lives to be gay or bi, but sooner or later we’ll have to come to terms with their straightness.

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  9. DeadlyDarius
    November 23, 2018

    There was a certain American man. His ideals were strong…his resolve was true.

    No country’s laws or potential health risk would hold him back.

    A volley of arrows would not make him relent. He would fulfill his goal on a remote Indian island.

    Dear Song Taehee, if you give in to the lust that you have, you will find what you are looking for. There is a thin line between bravery and idiocy. Do not cross it.

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  10. realme
    November 23, 2018

    he seriously didn’t apologise…see ehn I was going to say every man with his own taste and wants..and Waka ..but no… having feels for a man like these guy…is a huge NO and a clearly written stupidity

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  11. Facade
    November 23, 2018

    Did he talk about it? Did he seem remorseful? Did he apologize??? NO
    All he did was strip tease n passively seduce you. Boy he’s an ass, ditch him

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    • realme
      November 25, 2018

      realass .. lol

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  12. Canis VY Majoris
    November 23, 2018

    Dubem strikes me as an expert carpet sweeper with selective amnesia. May be a fallout of his time in prison. People are capable of intentionally forgetting the dark times of their lives, so it’s possible he doesn’t remember that day.

    However if you intend to remain in contact with him, you’d need closure and an apology. But my advice is don’t…let it and him go altogether.

    No good would come out of this alliance.

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  13. Ace
    November 23, 2018

    Anyone capable of the arrogance Dubem has exhibited, to make all those requests after he did, has something deeply wrong with them. I’m almost a 100% sure that he remembers what he did to you, the fact that he remembered you enough to be comfortable asking you to his room, have you in the same bed with him, strip in front of you, that’s not run-of-the-mill sexual confidence unless he’s an exhibitionist (which in itself might be another sign of trouble).

    The scenario you have described seems to me like a classic case of power play, he held most if not all the power during your time together and acted like nothing was going on while you agonized silently. He had your time, your attention, your answers to his questions, your confusion, and now he is about to have your tenancy (done as a favour). This doesn’t ring right and looks to me like he’s messing with you.

    I suggest you take back some of that power by confronting him over what he did to you, provided you feel safe and ready that is. If he remembers, that’s a red flag and if he doesn’t, that’s a bad sign too; it takes a certain kind of person to selectively forget pulling a knife on another human being amongst other things.

    Please tread very carefully so you don’t get involved with a potential malignant narcissist.

    I can relate to feeling something for someone who’s hurt you terribly before, we’re human after all but sometimes we have to kick those pesky amygdala filtered neural impulses and make realistic judgement calls no matter how hard it may be.

    P.s the fact that he stripped in front of you doesn’t make any definitive conclusions about his sexual orientation, some people genuinely enjoy messing with other people and he’s toyed with your emotions before.

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  14. Sisi
    November 23, 2018

    This is a very brilliant one and I feel for u tho…

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  15. Francis
    November 23, 2018

    Na beating you chop last time. This time around na police cell or bush fit get you as unsuspecting mule or sacrifice 🤷‍♂️ 🚶 🚶

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  16. Malik
    November 23, 2018

    They’ve said it all. In summary, don’t do it.

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  17. Dippo
    November 23, 2018

    My take is….. this guy has exhibited that he is not a person to have around. Firstly he kitoed you, secondly he is into drugs, thirdly he isn’t remorseful and didn’t even apologize for his actions. Man, his ills are too many. It’s a fucking red Flag. Judging by the picture your writeup portrayed of you, you can’t mix up with such a person. Anyone who can do drugs can kill and die without flinching. I understand that ur lusting after his body, that’s so normal cos ur hormones don’t seek our permission to act. My advice is thus, don’t rent his house , stay away from him. Get a hunkier person who’s gay, have the sex u crave from his figure and kill this crush. Dude remains dangerous to the world and worse even to you .

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    • trystham
      November 24, 2018

      Thank u sir

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  18. Dickson Clement
    November 23, 2018

    There is no manual to life-
    Different things happen to different people differently – these are words my mother will repeatedly say when I narrate my struggles and fears about life to her!

    For the first part, You really cannot judge people completely from their past and you cannot as well forget the deeds of yester years. People change, they grow up, they mature. It is a common knowledge that most adolescent homophobes are gaymen who are fighting their demons.

    Secondly, people mature in their ruthless schemes. A more delicate plot that can totally encapsulate and destroy their target. A prison yard can change a man, and if he is into drugs as you suggest , why in the hell are you even developing an ounce of emotion for him?

    No one can tell you what is right here- there are countless possibilities. All I can say is be careful because its devastating when you make the same mistake twice.

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  19. Law9
    November 23, 2018

    Your best friend can be your warst foe nd love is pain becareful now.

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  20. J
    November 23, 2018

    Honey you have to stay in that house for free and enjoy that dick while it lasts you deserve it… I repeat do not pay for the rent. He should pay for his sins, no forgiveness. Make him suffer, drag him until he takes off on his heels

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    • Keredim
      November 23, 2018

      Ah ah,

      Ms J of the House of Moralista.

      Your self imposed exile, didn’t last long.

      Welcome back.
      😂😂

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      • Francis
        November 23, 2018

        🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

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      • J
        November 23, 2018

        Your case is in high court 😂😂😂

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  21. Bebe
    November 25, 2018

    Run. Run would far. Do not stay in his house, do not sleep with him. Just run

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  22. mike
    November 26, 2018

    Lol, simply put, the thing way dey worry yhu, no get name.
    RUN !, yhu think drugs is the only thing nigerians hustle out there, the word is synonymous with alot of dangerous things niggas get there hands into, and pushing drugs is most polite n reasonable on that list.
    Yhur liver / kidney goes for about 1 million naira in dubai, 21st century human traffic , organ theft is still very active. If yhur lucky to be alive you’d be made into a modern day slave, sex slave if it suits yhur fancy.
    Real life close encounter long story.

    Pushing drugs is really very polite.
    keep yhur distance that thing way dey worry yhu,watch porn or go 4 deliverance.
    I prefer a mad person to a psychopath/sociopath anytym anyday,
    Cause a sociopath/psychopath is capable of normal everyday human interactions, hug, smile, sex etc.so they can pass for normal anytym, buh their minds, inhibitions and empathy is long gone, they wud/can do anything cause they’re no different than animals just reacting to base survival instincts.

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