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MARK AND ME

I used to think very lowly of gay Nigerians who recounted kito experiences they’ve been through because I thought these people were stupid and too desperate for sex, and for

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Ghanaian police arrest blackmailers who used Grindr to target gay men

In an unexpected move, police in Ghana have arrested two men who targeted gay men they found on Grindr. The men, Torsu Stephen, 23, and Aikins Atitsogbe, 21, were arrested

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HIS KITO STORY (EDITION 25)

An idle mind, they say, is the devil’s workshop. This couldn’t be further from the truth. I had just completed my service year and was waiting for admission for my

Series (Non-Fiction) 18 Comments

K’osidim n’obi (Entry 5)

So a few months ago (this would be the period immediately after I was outed to mum), I got a call from an aunt of mine. I hadn’t heard from

Series (Non-Fiction) 61 Comments

RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 60)

Every now and then, I hear gut-wrenching stories of people who run into trouble simply because they were trying to hook up with someone they met online, probably for a

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THE DAY I DODGED A BULLET

I dodged a bullet. That is the one line that aptly describes this kito story of mine. Was it even potentially a kito story? I don’t know. You decide. The

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THE DAY THE EARTH STOOD STILL

At eighteen, I wasn’t so different from other boys my age, and then again I was. I had a guilty pleasure: Fat Boys. Cute or not, as long as they

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HIS KITO STORY (EDITION 23)

I grew up having a sheltered childhood. Mine was the type of growing-up where my siblings and I had no sleepovers, not even at the homes of relatives, and we

Series (Non-Fiction) 61 Comments

RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 37)

You guys remember the kito story that was run on the #NoStrings podcast? Well I followed up on the story till the end and I want to give some feedback.

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HIS KITO STORY (EDITION 22)

I used to think that I had immunity to any kito situation as I always did what I wanted and got away with it. That feeling of fortification came to