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  1. Foxydevil
    October 31, 2017

    “My name is Abram, I’m a persistently romantic fool ”
    *********
    “my name is Abram, I’m a fool ”
    Fixed 😊.

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    • Pink Panther
      October 31, 2017

      Yes. That was a really intelligent contribution to this post.

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      • Foxydevil
        October 31, 2017

        😂😂😂
        Can’t one have a bit of fun, aren’t you tired of my epistles?

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    • Jason
      October 31, 2017

      Why do you constantly spew out so much hate? I mean I’m a silent reader and hardly comment but I can’t help but wonder how one individual can have so much hate within him. Gay people are subjected to hate and harassment on a daily basis . To come on here to express themselves only for people like you to further subject them to insults just isn’t right . If this is an act please put a stop to it . And please don’t reply this message because I won’t bother reading it. Your replies are always based on insulting words . I hope you have a great day mate

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      • Foxydevil
        October 31, 2017

        Aren’t you the dude that pays people to watch them naked?
        I remember that name “Jason ”
        Have you ran out of naked dudes to entertain you?
        I can borrow you my boy friend,
        he has the body of a god but he as dumb as a rock.
        What other way to get rid of the weighty sack of shit.
        You keep your little game ,I keep him out of my life….
        What do you say mate ?😁

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      • Jason
        November 2, 2017

        * lend not borrow
        If you’re going to come after me please do so in the right manner 😊

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      • Foxydevil
        November 2, 2017

        But you said you won’t be reading, here you are exposing yourself as a fraud and liar .Thanks for the correction anyway, English language has never been my strong suit. I guess that’s what happens when you are multi lingual, I speak five languages ,French, Spanish, igbo, Yoruba ,English and I’m not perfect in any of them, but I know enough to communicate clearly. Your attempt to shame me with another man’s language further proves why I can’t even engage you in a fight (you are empty)
        I won’t be coming at you, you’re neither arresting nor interesting enough.

        And just incase you are still interested, the offer is still up for grabs 😂😂😂

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  2. beejay
    October 31, 2017

    This is indeed a gay post. A beautiful one, well done Abrams.

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  3. Ken George
    October 31, 2017

    Sigh
    Go and marry. Lok

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  4. quinn
    October 31, 2017

    I really do appreciate and feel the Same sentiments as this writer, I don’t believe that Gay relationships have no chance of longevity. I’m also a hopeless romantic 😊

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  5. Canis VY Majoris
    October 31, 2017

    I felt gayer after reading this 😄

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  6. Doug
    October 31, 2017

    Abrams, as one “romantic fool” to another, I can assure you that Gay relationships can endure the test of time and be filled much love and romance. I offer my own relationship with my partner of 25 years as proof of that. Sadly, it did come to an end at the beginning of 2016 with his untimely death.

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    • edgar
      October 31, 2017

      This is beautiful and inspiring,I have some questions though did the relationship occur within the shores of Nigeria and how were you able to have a long lasting healthy gay relationship in a notoriously homophobic country like Nigeria?

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      • Doug
        November 2, 2017

        No, it was in the good old U.S.A.

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      • edgar
        November 2, 2017

        My condolences on your partner and are you a Nigerian? Anyways I still take strength from your story knowing its not all grim and the love of my life is out there so thank you!!!

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    • himbo
      October 31, 2017

      25 years?! that’s amazing. I hope your well Doug. my condolences

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    • cedar
      November 1, 2017

      Owwh, so sorry mate.
      25yrs?!!! my oh my! Is that even possible in Nigeria?

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    • Black Dynasty
      November 1, 2017

      Sorry to hear that, my sincere condolences. I hope you’re managing to heal cos man, I wouldn’t even know how to wake up or start living again

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  7. Black Dynasty
    November 1, 2017

    You are no fool Abrams, just an admirable minority. I am most certainly in a simar boat, you know what you want and can clearly distinguish right from wrong. I know couples, black couples in homophobic countries in 10+ year rships and going strong.

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  8. OJ
    November 1, 2017

    That thing about ‘Promiscuity is law’ made me hate a few people while growing up, coz they broke my heart without knowing.

    I believe in love. I always have.

    Now i’ve found love. I am so grateful and very optimistic about the future.

    Thank you for this post.

    #LoveHasWon

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  9. Delle
    November 2, 2017

    And I want to know who Abrams is on a personal level. I need this positivity in my life.

    PP?

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    • Pink Panther
      November 2, 2017

      I’ll ask him.

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  10. Doe Eyed Monster
    November 2, 2017

    Nice post Abrams..we really are gay…. Hmmm… Life… It’s almost like a “damned if you do, damned if you don’t ” … I still believe in love… Despite how hurt I have gotten… When people ask me why I still open myself up to relationships when they would eventually end… All I say is “we all die one day, but on the other days, we live” …it would be beautiful to enjoy the little moments of joy with those we love and when we get to the Bridge of doom, we would know how to cross it… We were born to fight harder and longer…

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  11. Pee.
    November 3, 2017

    I get why some of us only see an angle of the post. (an understanding)

    “I have known people who committed suicide, those who have been killed and tortured in unspeakable ways. And all this is because of who they love, because of the sex of (s)he who makes you feel butterflies. I wondered at some point in my life how butterflies can scare anyone. I wondered how love had become a thing to destroy. I wondered how people could never try to understand what they are not familiar with.

    I also wonder why we don’t try to either”

    The above referred to “why we or why LOVE wud be hated or destroyed” not that he supports the destruction or hatred.

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  12. Chizzy
    November 9, 2017

    People are lamenting about not being able to be who they are, mostly LGBT community, but what actions have you ever taken to fight for your rights, how effortlessly do you avoid that effeminate guy or will never be seen walking on the street with him, just because you are scared you might be lynched for associating with that abomination, because I know so many gay or bisexual guys still in the closet that behaves and act this way, they will be the first to throw the stone, the first to deny being gay, the first to rain hell on those out of the closet guys, the ones to write on their gay dating profiles “be manly” “effeminate guys turn me off” but you lament all day about not being accepted for loving who you love, now it’s not about being who you are but loving who you chose to love. It’s high time we join hands and fight for our rights by first of all loving ourselves no matter the gender identity, it starts with us.

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