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Our Stories 21 Comments

DAYS OF MY LIFE

As an effeminate child, I grew up having low self esteem and being insecure about how I looked. That, I think, came from the constant comparison with the other boy

Kito Stories 5 Comments

KITO ALERT LVI

This is the guy named Stanley from the story ESCAPING KITO. The KDian who wrote that story said he met him on 2go. Well, it would seem that he has

The Happenings 2 Comments

Ted Cruz criticizes vasectomy bill on Twitter, exposing his hypocrisy on reproduction rights

Senator Ted Cruz, an anti-abortion advocate, showed an utter lack of self-awareness over the weekend when he slammed legislation introduced in Alabama that would make vasectomies mandatory for men over

Our Stories 22 Comments

LIKE I DO

I close my eyes and let the melody of the song Like I Do by Fireboy DML, which is blasting through my headphones, carry me to another dimension. The song

Dear KD 14 Comments

The Proposal: I Am a Gay Man Looking For A Lesbian Partner

So yes, I am gay and I’m looking for a lesbian partner. Partnership here implies a friendship. We can decide to have a child or two through adoption or other

Editor's Desk 10 Comments

25 Problems That All Beyoncé Fans (AKA The Beyhive) Can Relate To

Originally published on Capital Xtra   If you thought it was difficult being Queen Bey, try being one of her worshippers. Life as a member of the Beyhive must be

Opinion Pieces 5 Comments

Opinion: ‘Will & Grace’ Tackling Bisexual Erasure Does More Harm Than Good

Originally published on TVLine   In the Thursday February 6 episode of Will & Grace, the NBC series clumsily attempted to tackle biphobic beliefs and yet stumbled throughout, relying on

The Happenings 3 Comments

Wendy Williams criticized for her comments regarding men wearing skirts, apologizes for her remarks

On the Thursday February 13 episode of The Wendy Show, Wendy Williams didn’t seem to approve of gender-fluid fashion. The talk show host has come under fire (once again) for

Editor's Desk 0 Comments

The Minority Report on the Audacity of Privilege

There are members of the LGBT community in Nigeria who actually believe that the activism for gay rights is a waste of time. That gay Nigerians who lament their inability

Our Stories 6 Comments

THE FIRST TIMES (Part 2)

Previously on THE FIRST TIMES… * Any time someone asks me, as part of a conversation, “So what was your first time like?” I like to clarify with a question