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Kito Alert: Be Mindful Of The Hookups You Get From ‘Friends’
In the past few months, we have had reports of community members who were set up by the guys their friends hooked them up with. There was the case of
LOVE . . . Or Something Like It (Entry 4)
February 14 SURPRISE, SURPRISE! Shortly after moving in with Kai, I decided one day to do something romantic for him. The idea I had was to make him breakfast in
‘Grown-ish’ Tackles Homophobia and Toxic Masculinity Among Black People
You may have come across them: all those behaviours that straight men say men are not supposed to have – such as properly wiping their ass after taking a dump,
THE BOY THAT KISSED ANOTHER BOY
It was a regular class with more charts on the walls than actual paint and a blackboard that was almost always covered with a dust of chalk, the sediments pooled
LOOK AT LIFE AND RESPECT THAT
Before going ahead with what I have to say, I would like to first pay homage to whom it’s due: to Sensei for being an endless stream of wisdom; to
A MOMENT IN TIME
“So when did you know that you are queer?” Chike asked. I was taken aback. I hadn’t expected that. Chike was someone I met on Grindr late last year. We
Anti-Gay Uproar Follows After The Opening Of LGBTQ+ Community Center In Ghana, Establishing The Country’s Widespread Homophobia
Homophobic outcry has forced what is reported to be Ghana’s first LGBT+ community center to temporarily close to protect its staff and visitors three weeks after it opened. Church groups,
THROUGH THE DARKNESS
The latter half of 2020 was as exciting for me as an argument with seven dimwits would be for an intellectual. Time became so meaningless that I needed significant events
HIS HALO
I was lounging on a three-seater couch in my portable apartment, playing around with my favorite apps on my phone. I do not live in a fenced compound, and so,
Tweets of the Day: About Gay Stereotypes
Bottoms speak good English. Tops don’t care about their personal hygiene. Bottoms don’t have muscles. Tops don’t cross their legs when they sit. Bottoms are bitchy. Tops don’t have time
