Some gay men be like…
Lol. We sure love to contradict ourselves, don’t we?
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23 Comments
John
November 25, 06:37Really. we have this forming thingy for ourselves. I don’t have the urge for straight guys I doun just know why. I crave for a guy until I know he is gay
Dick Advocate
November 25, 07:04Gay men think with their Dicks really, if anything Gay people should be given an award ‘Most delusional set of humans’ we have this “us against the world” mentality that is affecting every aspect of our reasoning. And did I mention we are the most self-loathing, self centered, selfish, never understanding or comprehending others perspective set of people ever. We think only about our self and that is why Gay people can never be satisfied with any situation they find themselves.. Case in reference as above.
Max
November 25, 08:19A phrase comes to mind that perfectly describes your predicament: “Internalized homophobia”. < clearly the force is still strong with you.
Pink Panther
November 25, 08:19Says KD’s Yoda. 😀
Sinnex
November 25, 07:39Wetin be Neg and Ub2?
Well…
Guilty as charged… sue me!!!
Mitch
November 25, 07:46Is norray small sontin.
ambivalentone
November 25, 07:52This doesn’t make sense. I believe its the same preferences the gay guy would project on the straight person he is trying to convice (sorry, convert) as with the gay counterpart. That’s like saying I wee now gaan be telling a fat ‘belle-ful’ straight man “just try it once” *shudders*
Max
November 25, 08:22Please this doesn’t apply to everyone. In my book, sexuality isn’t that fluid(I don’t advice straight people to something they’d rather not do) And I’m attracted to a wide range of people.
Mandy
November 25, 08:47The post did say ‘SOME gay men be like…’ 🙂
Duke
November 25, 08:50I think there is something very appealing about wanting something we may (or think we may) never get. The fact that a very straight guy has all you want but will not fall for you, makes him quite appealing for some. It is not a gay thing, it is a male thing. Guys naturally try to pursue things or people (male or female) that plays hard to get. It is weirdly erotic. But in the case of gay to gay, you know he is gay already, that makes you simply want a standard for yourself. No hate there.
Kester
November 25, 10:00So I will go ahead and pretend I am straight and every gay guy will want me! Yaaaaaaaayyy!!!!!
You just solved an issue @Duke
Duke
November 25, 18:09Lol kester.
Khaleesi
November 25, 10:48everday am thankful that am not really attracted to straight men, once i realise a man is NOT gay, however cute he is, all the sexual attraction for him just drains away from me. I personally think it takes too much time and hassle + the attached risks in such a homophobic clime to go chasing after a straight man …
ronniphoenix
November 25, 12:40Even though I’ve practically been in the “gay” world, I still don’t fully undeerstand gay people.
It may sound “caitlyn jenner”, but it’s just my opinion.
I’ve never understood gay men, I can totally related with lesbians, and straight women, but gay men…………… Not in a million years
Chuck
November 25, 13:11Ok, you’re different. Add something about why you don’t, so that a discussion can occur. This is a non sequitur.
Stranger
November 25, 15:08No gay man in his right senses would want to relate with you too, Tbh.
ronniphoenix
November 25, 16:32Oh dear, I won’t take your comments serious, cause I don’t have “it” for ill mannered people now.
I don’t need to have discussions with close minded bigots hiding under the cloak of “homosexuality”.
I don’t need hateful bigots to relate with me.
Xoxo
Chuck
November 25, 18:19If you don’t want to discuss with the people here, why are you here?
P.S. I won’t insult you – I’ll let your statements speak for themselves.
ronniphoenix
November 25, 20:07I wasn’t being “insultive” I was merely laying down a fact.
I am here because this is an LGBT (emphasis on T) site, though it seems to me it is more of a GB site.
I stated my mind, I don’t understand gay men. Simple!!!!!!!!
Chuck
November 25, 21:21What is the fact? Who were the “hateful bigots” you referred to? Those you’re refusing to discuss with, as I suggested. We all know you think this blog is too focused on gays and bi people at the expense of transgender people. Why not write about how that is / how that can change, instead of whining with passive aggressive comments?
Tobby
November 25, 14:36lol.
Jamie
November 25, 19:31Are we still on this topic??? For crying out loud, we all have choices.
Telling a gay man who doesn’t like white skin to force himself and like it cos he is gay and must be all-embracing is like telling the gay man to love a woman at all cost, or a heterosexual to love a same-sex partner at all cost!!
Black or white men or women are too important to be loved out of pity by choosey men; and the choosey men are too important to be shown who to love by you!! We’re not in those centuries when family showed one who’d make a perfect partner, right?
Pink Panther
November 26, 05:43You totally missed the thrust of the post, Jamie. There’s an irony here that you clearly didn’t get.