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Our Stories 5 Comments

THE NECESSARY EVIL

Once upon a time last year, I told the story about the Love of a Boy. In that story, I mentioned that I’d initially attended a public school with no

Dear KD 25 Comments

Dear KD: How Do I Save Myself From His Blackmail?

I have always wanted to share my thoughts and experience with this great community, but time won’t let me. However, after what happened last night, I find myself urgently needing

Our Stories 15 Comments

CARDBOARDSEXUALITY: Another Sexual Behaviour?

This write-up is strictly based on personal exploration and a need to inform in case there are those who feel the same. As a result, there are no projections, no

Kito Stories 16 Comments

SURVIVING THE TRAUMA

Sometime in June 2018, I had a terrible kito experience which made me withdraw from life, also causing me to suffer post traumatic stress so severe, I had to go

Editor's Desk 1 Comment

Accommodation: Need For A Flatmate

Hello KD I am in urgent need of a male roommate at Jakande, Lekki, in a shared flat for a monthly rent that is very affordable. The rates are 40

Fiction 8 Comments

FROM THE BED’S POINT OF VIEW

FOREWORD: After reading Alté Jay’s story about possibly finding love with his dark-skinned Grindr hookup, I thought about someone whose voice hadn’t been heard, whose side of the story hadn’t

Kito Stories 8 Comments

KITO ALERT LXX

1. His name (according to Truecaller) is Yar Zuma, and he operates in the North, Katsina and Kano according to the reports we got. His number is 08034936555. 2. His

Our Stories 27 Comments

IF THIS IS LOVE

His profile is blank, showing nothing but 39. I am having a bad Grindr day. When I send him “Hi”, he takes ages before he responds, and then we start

Our Stories 9 Comments

Straight? No! Bisexual? Maybe.

I did not have much exposure to the LGBTQ+ community, when I was growing up. Then again, very few people of a generation were. I was also very sheltered in

The Happenings 2 Comments

OnlyFans Releases Details Regarding Ban On Adult Content, Responds to Creators

News broke last week that OnlyFans would be banning all sexually explicit material starting in October 1. OnlyFans confirmed the news shortly thereafter, stipulating that the platform — which made