Random Questions XIII
Especially if your friend’s partner was your friend too…
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26 Comments
Francis
September 15, 04:54Na to find way detach myself small biko. Can’t be around when shit hits the ceiling.
Mandy
September 15, 05:33If the partner isn’t my friend but merely someone I know through my friend when they started dating, YES, absolutely I’ll tell.
But if the partner is also my friend, I’d tell the partner that I know what he’s doing and I’d give him the chance to fess up with my friend.
quinn
September 15, 06:18If my friend is really my friend of course I’d tell! but gently and after I must have talked to the partner.
Colossus
September 15, 06:32Why tell when you’ve got front row seats to impending doom?
trystham
September 15, 07:14Bwahahahahaha
Pink Panther
September 15, 07:55???????? So mean and yet so true. Who doesn’t like a good drama.
Canis VY Majoris
September 15, 06:42No, gay relationships have expiry dates ?
Delle
September 15, 11:36Oh so brilliant of you, Canis! Brilliant of you ???
Dickson Clement
September 15, 06:55I will talk to the one cheating, will advice him to end the relationship immediately or stop cheating. If he takes the advice , there will be no further action. If he doesn’t , then i will start dropping suggestions to the partner. I won’t tell him plainly , but i will help him find out that his partner is cheating .
trystham
September 15, 07:16*shrugs The minute my friends start dating, I actually subconsciously stop being ‘pals’ with them
Pink Panther
September 15, 07:53How so?
trystham
September 15, 07:57Because of this very same reason. I’d blame myself if things go south between them, it’d be super-awkward relating with them afters…oh, I’d be relegated to third wheel position. I can’t cope with the added pressure abeg.
Pink Panther
September 15, 07:58You know the real kicker? When they break up and start demanding your loyalty. As in, where once you had two friends, they start demanding you pick one and dump the other. Basically you’d be expected to share the breakup with them too. lol
Francis
September 15, 08:17Gbam!
trystham
September 15, 08:18Its like they’ve done it to u abi? U too get am
Pink Panther
September 15, 12:58My dear, i couldn’t belivit when I was put in that position. Like Whaddaell?!
BRYAN PETERS
September 15, 17:43???
Basically you’d be expected to share the breakup with them too. lol
You couldn’t have put it any better
IBK
September 16, 10:42I can guess who did this to you.
Johnny
September 15, 07:55So that you can hook up with one abi?
trystham
September 15, 08:01Haba!!! I’m wicked not a satan na.
Johnny
September 15, 07:57I would try my best to make things better.
Sens8
September 15, 08:28If I’m not the cherub that brought them together, why do I have to have a hand in impending disaster? I’ll sit on the side lines, watch the nuclear fallout and remain friends with either of them, as long as they aren’t radioactive to my relationship with the other one.
Mitch
September 15, 09:26Yes, I would!
Because I’d expect him to do the same for me. To open my eyes to truths that I’m probably blinded to by love.
Most of all, to protect my friend.
I wish someone had done it for me early enough. I probably won’t be where I am today
Delle
September 15, 11:35Hmm. This is a tough one. I like couples to handle their issues on their own (this is my heart talking) but I know me. I hate deceit. My friend deceiving another friend of mine.
I’ll have to let him know o. I can’t have him find out later, come to me for succor when I’ve known all along and could probably have spared him the trauma (this is my head talking).
I like to think I’ll warn the one cheating first. Only one chance I’ll give before I spill. If the friendship crashes, I’ll be glad to have cut myself off a dwib.
riddleMe
September 16, 02:54I will have sex with both of them.
Black Dynasty
September 16, 11:10I will give the cheating one the chance to man up and do the right thing, if he can’t… then I will speak up. I’d my friends would do the same for me too.