Tag "Gay Men"
Opinion: Why Gay Men Need Straight Friends Too
We often hear that straight people need educating about what’s going on in the LGBT community. There’s a constant narrative about what we can do to widen our heteronormative society’s
PROBLEMATIC GAY MEN YOU’VE EVER HAD SEX WITH
1. Those who’ll avert their face when you reach for a kiss, bringing you to the sudden sinking realization that they are not kissers. 2. Those who kiss, but
“Being Gay Is Not A Career.” Nigerian Gay Man Sparks A Conversation on Twitter About the Choices of Gay Men in Nigeria
Late Sunday evening, a Twitter user who goes by the handle @Debonairjay tweeted his “advice” to young gay men, a tweet which has gone viral in screengrabs that have been
CHASING ROGUE
I started doing some contract work for a publishing firm in Yaba, and since the commute from where I live is murder, I had to temporarily move in with a
Opinion: The Problem With Preferences
When being called out for superficiality, people cling to the term “preference.” In most cases, people use the term out of context; they use it to justify and perpetuate damaging
Kito Alert: The Nigerian Police Is On the Prowl
A KDian sent me screenshots of the following conversation that took place in his Facebook inbox. Check it out. It would seem that the police who arrested the young men
Dear KD: I Love “Love” But I Do Not Know How To Get It
I have been in 3 relationships, so to speak. The first was between 2012/2013. I was 19 years old then, and he was an older man. It was an abusive
The Lie Of “I Love You”
You know what I don’t understand? Guys who are such pathological liars, they lie even when they don’t have to. How is it that you know someone, you both hook
