Tag "Gay Men"

Editor's Desk 9 Comments

Why Do Gay Men Pay Straight Men For Sex But Not Fellow Gay Men?

I was in the company of some friends a few days ago, and one of them was talking about the exploits of his friend who is apparently a diehard straight

The Happenings 7 Comments

“Gay Porn Is Full Of Straight Men.” Twitter user schools the unenlightened public

When a Twitter user who goes by the username “The Xterminator” posted a question where he basically asked straight men if they would agree to have penetrative sex with a

Opinion Pieces 10 Comments

Opinion: The Truth About Having A Big Dick

[Originally published on newnownext.com, by Bobby Cox] “Power bottom 4 hung tops,” “Hung to the front of the line,” “Big cock+++.” No matter where you are in the world, a

Opinion Pieces 10 Comments

6 Signs He’s Not Looking for Anything Serious

It’s tough breaking things off with someone. In fact, it’s so tough that most guys have absolutely no idea how to do it. Instead of being upfront, they “fade out.”

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Guarding You Against You

Some days ago, I saw a post on Facebook by a woman who’d been hitting on me a while ago. She was getting married to my cousin. And the first

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HOMOSEXUAL HURTS AND THE BISEXUAL AGENDA

A couple of days ago, Nigerian Gay Twitter was triggered when a gay man took it upon himself to preach the gospel of bisexuality. First of all, I want to

The Happenings 2 Comments

Internet Users weigh in on what it means to have Top Privilege

Strict top. Dom top. Vers top. Total top. These are all important terms in the lexicon of top culture. To help paint a clearer picture, below are 10 tweets that

Our Stories 15 Comments

JUST SAY NO AND KEEP IT MOVING

I remember the time that there was some trending drama on Facebook long ago – I can’t remember when, or the full details of it, but the here’s the summary

Opinion Pieces 3 Comments

It Is Not Only Possible But Common For A Gay Man To Not Like Anal Sex

Anal sex has become conflated with the male gay or bisexual experience — so much so that the top-vs-bottom question is often the first talking point in Grindr chats. So

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The Battle That’s Already Been Won (Part 2)

Previously on THE BATTLE THAT’S ALREADY BEEN WON… * CDS meeting was a bore as usual and I found myself getting more and restless as I struggled to pay attention