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THE MEN OF PORT HARCOURT

There is something about this city, something that draws you in and repels you at the same time. For people like me, people from towns and small cities — places

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DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK (Entry 5)

The Down-Low Men As a queer man who grew up in a very homophobic environment (read Nigeria), I totally understand that queer folk in our societies have different journeys and

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DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK (Entry 2)

The Scottish Dom So, from my previous post, I am sure a lot of us here must think that the hookup culture in the UK is an abysmally hopeless case.

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DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK

The Grindr Culture Shock I’d always known that experiencing the culture shock that comes with relocating from Nigeria to the United Kingdom was inevitable. However, I never imagined that I

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TAKING THINGS SERIOUS

So I hooked up with this guy awhile ago. He was quite good in the sack, with endless energy; made me cum twice in a row, something that hadn’t happened

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THE BOOTY CALL

I am barely settled in his house, my visit just about 7 minutes old, when my friend gets a call. His face lights up when he looks at the screen

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DO NOT NEGOTIATE WITH BLACKMAILERS

This has been a season for blackmailers: these are scum who use the vulnerabilities of guys they’ve gotten access to as leverage to try and get a big payday. In

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This guy booked a flight to meet a hookup from Grindr guy before even knowing his name

It took Tim Wright less than two hours to book a flight from London, England, to Helsinki, Finland, all to visit a guy he had only just met on Grindr.

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Why Do Gay Men Pay Straight Men For Sex But Not Fellow Gay Men?

I was in the company of some friends a few days ago, and one of them was talking about the exploits of his friend who is apparently a diehard straight

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Gay teen gets his heart broken by older man in a new music video

Anyone who has ever had any romance with a married gay man would relate with this music video. The song, Afterglow, is the latest track from California-based singer-songwriter, Christopher Sorensen,