I was in the company of some friends a few days ago, and one of them was talking about the exploits of his friend who is apparently a diehard straight boy chaser. According to this guy, his friend is very lavish in his generosity when it comes to the enticements required to get straight boys into his bed. And on those occasions when the straight boys become clingy, wanting to carry on with the sexual relationship, he cuts them off the financial gains, because he’s gotten turned off by what he perceives to be their too-much-gayness. Putting it crudely, at this time, he believes he has “converted” them and because they are now gay, they no longer hold the appeal that requires him to gift them with materialistic benefits.
And this is quite a common trend in the gay community. Gay men are swifter to cut off fellow gay men who place monetary condition on their hookup than straight men who sometimes don’t even have to state that condition.
Gay men would generally pay to get down with straight men but would hardly do the same for fellow gay men.
Why is this, I wonder.