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  1. Mandy
    December 14, 2017

    Some gay Nigerians go through kito and you nod your head and say yes, they deserved it. What the fuck is this! You are sending nudes to someone you’ve not met, and you added videos too? All the way to Abuja from Aba, and you hadn’t even spoken to him on the phone? Or heard his voice? Basically all that was making you go to Abuja are pictures and whatsapp messages! Who is this stupid in the Nigerian gay clime of 2017?! 😕😠 And when your ticket turned out to be bad, you didn’t pause to suspect and shut down the whole thing! You got to Abuja and was made to stay 24 hours and without food before you could see the person you thought you came for, and nothing told you you were being played? Jeezuz! This story could have played out anyway bad, you could have walked into a violent situation in Abuja for fuckssakes! If this Amara is reading this, you better wise up fast and stop letting your dick rob you of your senses. This is just stupid. Stupid, stupid, stupid!!!

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    • Rehoboth
      December 14, 2017

      While I understand your anger, nobody deserves kitoing

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      • Mandy
        December 14, 2017

        Some people do. That’s the only way they’ll learn. Some people won’t have sense until experience has taught them a lesson.

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    • Delle
      December 14, 2017

      Yes, Mandy love, you’re totally right to be angry. It’s okay to vent but you forget that when something bad wants to happen, there’s this energy that seems to rob even the wisest of his senses. At that point, you’re not thinking rationally (so many personal experiences (not kito) and stories from friends have taught me this).

      So while you are justified for being totally irritated at Amara, let’s not forget he is human and can very well slip. I mean, his friend, Dreads, is involved. There’s a very huge possibility he kinda relaxed on his chin knowing there’s no way his friend would link him up with someone snide.

      That said, please, DO NOT SEND NUDES WITH YOUR FACE SHOWING! This should already be routine. If they want to see your face, a well-taken clothed photo can very well do that and more.

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  2. Rehoboth
    December 14, 2017

    Extents people can go for a hookup *shudders*

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  3. Delle
    December 14, 2017

    Please, keep us posted. This blackmail thing is becoming a norm these days.
    And this may come off as cheesy but I’m so glad Amara wasn’t so hurt. I understand no one should go through what he did but I was genuinely scared it was going to be worse than it turned out.

    It sure is going to be a long wait.

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  4. Canis VY Majoris
    December 14, 2017

    While it’s unfair to laugh at your misfortunes it is also fair to say you shouldn’t be this silly considering the country we live in. Adapt to your environment and act accordingly.

    So because of ‘sex’ o! You subjected yourself to this type of ordeal. Lord pls save us from this type of Kongi that will make us travel half way across the country for prick and ass!.

    😶

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    • wonder buoy
      December 14, 2017

      …and waste 7200 on top.

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  5. Tristan
    December 14, 2017

    All I can say is, TRAVELING to meet someone you don’t really know for a hook up is, in my opinion, very stupid.
    If he is so interested, let him get on a bus or something and come to you. That one sef is dangerous, but at least, you have the home advantage.
    The shii that happen without traveling sef is crazy enough.

    7pm is a very late to be meeting someone for the first time. If he’s busy during the week and won’t get home on time, go during the weekend and get there, say 2pm latest.

    This thing where you are to meet up with A and A sends B to pick you up sef is a red flag, if we both agreed on when and where to meet and suddenly you can’t show up, you have to send someone, bye bye.

    I don’t understand why and how you would go meet up with someone for the first time and not go with enough money to cover your tfare to and fro and other expenses that may arise, even if he promises to cover that, still go prepared.

    This is the 21st century o.
    It’s better to be paranoid.
    Do not send nudes with your face.
    After sex, don’t sleep naked. Get into your briefs and a t-shirt or something.

    In conclusion, what you went through isn’t right and shouldn’t happen to anyone.
    Be careful next time.

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    • Francis
      December 14, 2017

      So much protocols/hoops on top say I wan dey fuck variety when I can just find one that is trustworthy with plenty sense and put him on speed dial.

      I cannot coman let my paranoia give me HBP biko

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      • Tristan
        December 14, 2017

        That’s the best o.
        Stick to one person ya can totally trust.

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    • trystham
      December 16, 2017

      Amen!!!!

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  6. Cleo
    December 14, 2017

    the name alone gan, Frank Sandra. really?

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    • Tristan
      December 14, 2017

      I thought I was the only one.

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  7. wonder buoy
    December 14, 2017

    When some gays decide that sex is more important than friendship, things would be happening. If Amara had at least tried to “find the friend” in Frank, this story might have come here, but under a different heading.

    Frank Sandra… From where is he? Facebook names Sha.

    There were too many red lights but were all ignored.

    Nnanna ndo o.

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    • flame
      December 30, 2017

      FIND THE FRIEND first! Your intuition serves supreme purpose here! Never be in a hurry to go shagg someone. Kindly wank and blow off the steam if it’s that bad!

      It’s utterly disheartening how people would exploit the unfortunate circumstances their sexuality puts them, in a country like this.

      The dominant behaviour and psychology on grindr has convinced me that abuse is a matter of power. Homophobes are not demons simply because of it. It’s a more fundamental issue. A lack of humanity. One which I very well recognise amongst countless LGBT folks also.

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  8. quinn
    December 14, 2017

    Mmmh that line…*do your worse *😂😂😂. This is interesting

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  9. Francis
    December 14, 2017

    How old is Amara oh?

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  10. Black Dynasty
    December 14, 2017

    Complete and utter stupidity on Amara’s part, far too many red flags to have ignored.

    What kind of ignorance makes you spend all your money to meet someone you don’t know and be completely at their mercy financially and other wise?

    This could very well have been worse than kito even, could have been a kidnapping situation or worse a ritual type situation.

    People, be wise. Only got one life to live, listen to that inner voice when it warns you. No man is too fine and no dick/ass is that good to risk your life for.

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  11. BRYAN PETERS
    December 14, 2017

    Wasted my time reading this. The attitude shown here defies logic abeg

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  12. DeadlyDarius
    December 15, 2017

    I just….I can’t deal. So glad it didn’t turn out worse.

    This is why closely known f buddies are the best if I’m not in a relationship.

    I sincerely hope that the Amara was naive/immature/inexperienced and maybe just getting the hang of gay hookups in Nigeria. Because if otherwise, it begs the question of how lonely/horny/desperate for love would someone be to ignore ALL the signs he was being played. Big, flashing, explicit signs. To the point of sending nude videos with face while not seeing any in return?! *shudders*

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  13. dale
    December 15, 2017

    oh well!.. a cream at hand is way better than meeting an unknown dude.btw,foxydevil where art thou?!

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  14. Yazz Soltana
    December 16, 2017

    Everything here is a product of greed .
    American dollars..
    Believing he would get more money in return for the one he spent..
    I’m not judging you tho…

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  15. Dan
    December 17, 2017

    This so called Amara can’t he just wank and have his brain reset to default mode?.

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