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  1. shuga chocolata
    October 24, 2016

    gracious heavens.
    Some people sha can’t take no for an answer.

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    • ambivalentone
      October 24, 2016

      It can be freaking ANNOYING!!!!

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  2. Mandy
    October 24, 2016

    My god, this Afam is a fucking sicko! :O He breaks up with you with the most self-esteem-destroying message ever. Then he wants back in. Then he gets an attitude when you say no. Then he OUTS YOU?!
    I don’t understand angry Nigerian exes who are vengeful. Like WTF! I hear about this all the time, of exes who out the guy they’ve broken up with to their families, and I can just imagine a hefty thunder firing them.
    What rubbish!

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    • Keredim
      October 24, 2016

      “I don’t understand angry Nigerian exes who are vengeful”.

      Do you understand non-Nigerian ones? ?

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    • Delle
      October 24, 2016

      I’ve never seen such wickedness…God!

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  3. Pags
    October 24, 2016

    Hmmmmmm big sigh

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  4. SillyAnonymous
    October 24, 2016

    ???????
    Congratulations on all fronts, Kaine. You have an amazing family!

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  5. .•*Sugaar.•*
    October 24, 2016

    Truly he helped you in finding a way to make things better. Am glad mum was okay with you and your sexuality now.
    For Afam, let the raging torrent begin

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  6. Francis
    October 24, 2016

    Thank goodness this ended well….kinda. I wouldn’t mind this kain outing just to get things outta the way once and for all. (hopefully my heart can take it sha)

    Let’s all join our hands in prayer as we pray against evul exes. May they never see us to wreak havoc.

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  7. KryxxX
    October 24, 2016

    Wow! Just wow!

    If only my mum would react like this….. .. ? if only.. .. … ?. But like they say, if wishes were horses……

    And As for Afam, #smh, lemme just start by sending uchu to gbagbuo his existence. When I’m done gathering myself we would talk about those maggots that will eat up his testes alive!! !! ! Idiot!

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    • Mandy
      October 24, 2016

      But Kryxxx, you’ll never know until it happens. I’m sure Kainene felt the exact same way you did. I’m sure he thought his mother would be an ogre when she learns about his sexuality. hence her being the only person in the family who didn’t know.
      But alas, she knew and see how it turned out. My point is, often times, when it gets personal, when homosexuality hits close to home, some homophobes are forced to find their humanity. There’s no quicker way to change a homophobe than when he or she realizes that ‘gay people’ aren’t those people out there, but also someone close to him or her.

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      • ambivalentone
        October 24, 2016

        Don’t I wish it were in all cases this was true

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      • Delle
        October 24, 2016

        Many a time, when it hit our parents in the face in this manner, they have no choice but to be tolerant. *shrugs*

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      • KryxxX
        October 24, 2016

        Lmaoooo!

        My mum????????.

        All I can do is just laugh.

        My mum abi? The one I am in the same house with? The one I have experienced her judgemental power first hand on very serious issues. Let’s just say I rather commit suicide than let my mum wield her judgmental power on me based on my sexuality I. E if she doesn’t kill me first for ruining the “family name” or send me packing!

        I am still hoping and praying that my ordeal last semester doesn’t get home, then I would know if her humanity might stretch to accommodate a gay son. Might… ……..After I am dead.

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      • Pink Panther
        October 25, 2016

        Ahem.
        Ordeal last semester??? 😀

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  8. IBK
    October 24, 2016

    Some people are so dysfunctional shaaaaaa
    What afam did sounds like a max-level (pun intended) degree of vengeance. And the nerve he has asking if he will see you again. Ptueh!

    Children don’t make me anxious but they annoy me to no end and it doesn’t help that they are attracted to me like flies to shit.

    I’m happy your being outed to your family ended on a relatively light note. Awesome entry.

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  9. Bain
    October 24, 2016

    oh wooow!….I woulda stabbed DAT Afam guy in the throat….thank God my folks know about….I can’t imagine the fear of getting “outed”.

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    • Delle
      October 24, 2016

      Hian! The ratio is really slimming down drastically

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  10. ambivalentone
    October 24, 2016

    All is well that ends well, we thank God. Now what happened to the accused gay guys from last week? Any update?

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    • Kainene
      October 24, 2016

      looolll my dear, i do know for a fact that the manager of the eatery has been released tho sadly im not sure i can say the same for the others· knowing our Nigerian police they’d drag it out for as long as possible in an attempt to “ferret out every member of the somehow interlinked underground secret community of marriage destroying, devil stricken gay agents” so lets all take cover. *hides under a rock with biscuits*

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  11. .•*Sugaar.•*
    October 24, 2016

    Henemies…. Fire! Die! Hossana, thank you Jesus. In jenifa’s voice

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  12. Di-Navy
    October 24, 2016

    kainene dear . we have similar experience . An ex who has my blood running through his veins when he almost lost his life . An ex I brought close to family and I treated him like family threatened to out to me to my family . why? Because he saw I moved on and I got better without him .lmao . he was so pained and he started receiving poisonous advices from low lives .
    this kind of scenerio is always conversant with low lives who grew up in the eastern Nigeria that lack exposure . well he cooked up his lies against me and smartly I turned it against him . sadly he had a messy past which I never knew of. My siblings investigated so much about him and found out that he’s a total mess. My friends stood up for me and covered the tracks for me . gosh ! That way, I was saved and my brothers threatened to lock him up if he dare comes close to me or any one of us . The retard called weeks after apologising for the mess he did blaming it on the devil and love .Bitter exes really exist and they are so poisonous !

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    • Chizzie
      October 24, 2016

      *Rolls eyes *

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      • Pink Panther
        October 24, 2016

        Can he live, Chizzie? 😀

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      • DI-NAVY
        October 24, 2016

        *Pats him on the back* *hugs*

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      • KingBey
        October 24, 2016

        Let them fall out. ???

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    • Kainene
      October 24, 2016

      wowwwww, in this case I’m actually glad I was outed. I don’t think I’d ever have had the courage to come out if it hadn’t happened that way.

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    • Jide
      October 25, 2016

      Aww baby

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  13. KingBey
    October 24, 2016

    Kainene, are you a male or female? I get confused sometimes.

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    • Pink Panther
      October 24, 2016

      Did you read this entry before you asked that question?

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    • Delle
      October 24, 2016

      Male

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  14. iAmNotAPerv
    October 25, 2016

    Kick him! Kill him! Stab him! Burn him!
    These were my thoughts when i read about Afam’s stupidity.I love how you handled it though. I’m so glad your outing went so well K. If my parents ever found out, they would just cut off all my connections to the internet because that would be the number one suspect of my ‘poisoning’

    This Afam is irritating, doesn’t he understand that all he is to do is shut the f up and stay away from my darling Kaniene. Gahh, he annoys me to no ends. i hope this is the last i read of him!

    Oh well! 😀 Great piece K baby, i shall anticipate the next one. Yours truly,
    Ife Pervy 😉

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    • Kainene
      October 25, 2016

      awwwww aren’t you a darling! thanks a lot babe

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