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  1. beejay
    September 22, 2017

    There you go! Can I just say, that I absolutely abhor that phrase, “no homo”.
    Another thing that irks, is this Neanderthal notion that just coz you’re gay, you’d wanna shag anything that passes for the male specimen. I think a punch in the face woulda been befitting, remind homeboy of his manners.

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    • Bain
      September 22, 2017

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  2. Mandy
    September 22, 2017

    You know what I find distasteful about this Abiodun character? It’s the whole ‘no homo’ nonsense! I can’t quantify how much I hate hearing guys use those two words. There’s nothing wrong with being bicurious. It’s the no homo journey he took from saying he doesn’t do men to kissing a guy that I find really annoying. Okay so you don’t do men. Good. Can we just leave it at that, instead of you trying to validate your heterosexuality at every turn.
    No homo ko, homo erectus ni! Mscheewwww!

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    • Bain
      September 22, 2017

      That’s exactly why I’m keeping my distance. no homo this,no homo that,yet you homo and lie that you don’t want to homo. leave me and my “yes homo” alone.

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      • Pink Panther
        September 22, 2017

        😂😂😂😂😂😂
        That should be a trending hashtag. #YesHomo

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      • Bain
        September 22, 2017

        #YesHomo hunny.

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  3. Eddir
    September 22, 2017

    You keep classifying him as a straight dude…. I disagree
    That nigga ain’t ” straight “

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  4. Foxydevil
    September 22, 2017

    Story summary…
    “you’ve been attracting closeted gay men ”
    Next!

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    • riddleMe
      September 22, 2017

      This comment here…hahahahahah

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    • shawn
      September 22, 2017

      you shady bitch

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    • Bain
      September 22, 2017

      Closeted gay men with serious IH.

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  5. Ola
    September 22, 2017

    Please send me Abiodun number lol
    Seems like the kind of DL I want

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    • Delle
      September 22, 2017

      Sigh. Just sigh.

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      • Pink Panther
        September 22, 2017

        Lol. Why you sighing, Delle? One gay man’s reject is another gay man’s appeal na

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      • Delle
        September 22, 2017

        It’s the DL thing that irks me. Someone wee just be proud of being invisible.

        🚶🚶🚶

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  6. doe eyed monster
    September 22, 2017

    Hmmm… Nice write up… While i understand that this sort of things happen to you a lot, hence you getting tired and reacting cold to it, i will like you to understand that people are different.

    It was easy for you to accept yourself, but for some other people, it takes a lot of time, denial and maybe experimenting…thats why we have the LGBTQ.. Q for Questioning..

    Now i am not saying you should keep allowing yourself to be used for experiment, but i am saying you could help him with his journey. If truly he is your friend, then i feel you should discuss everything that went on in your head with him. He took a bold step by kissing you, but then tell me what will be going on in his head with your reaction.. The confusion, the further questions and what not…

    So my point is this… Communicate all you feel to him… Let him know how him saying “no homo” repeatedly makes you think… Ask him the real reason for kissing you and how he felt after, ask him what he intends to happen in future, maybe he might just explore his bisexuality (not with you, you have to be clear on this) , but most importantly, talk. (you assumed a lot in your story)

    If he doesn’t seem to want to open up… Then you can know “i did my best in trying to help you, this is where i can’t go further” …he is your friend.

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    • Pink Panther
      September 22, 2017

      👏👏👏👏👏 This is very sound.

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    • Bain
      September 22, 2017

      Apt.

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    • Pablo ™
      September 22, 2017

      IH fools.. I run for my life once I smell them from afar. Awon eleribu

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  7. Delle
    September 22, 2017

    No hun. It’s not nine straight men you kissed or that tried to have sex with you.

    It’s nine BI-CURIOUS guys. And as it so happens, a lot of guys out there are curious.

    I have always said it that any guy who feels the need to add “nohomo” after any “suggestive” quip actually isn’t telling all the truth. And I’m still waiting to be proved wrong.

    As for shutting him down Bain, like I already told you, it was not the best step. The closeness you both had already pre-established should be enough for you to at least tolerate him and not just push him off like that. At this stage, this point of curiosity, he is very fragile in his thoughts. Can easily be swayed to the positive or negative side of his curious path and I truly believe your pushing him away, like he’s vermin, would damage his already shaken ego.

    Oh well…

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    • Pink Panther
      September 22, 2017

      Abiodun needed enlightenment. You hear that, Bain? You need to go back and fetch that dude back into our community 😀😀

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      • Delle
        September 22, 2017

        You know what, PP? I think I’ll take the reins from here.

        I have a soul to save! 💅💅💅

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    • Bain
      September 22, 2017

      I totally understand this. But this boy has serious internal homophobia and you know my runnings with those. something’s he does that I can’t really translate in this gist. I avoid that kind of Drama,And Believe me,his ego ain’t damaged or bruised.

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  8. Mandy
    September 22, 2017

    If it were me, as that kiss is going on, I’d be going for his zipper, unzipping him and diving into his boxers. Shey you want to experiment with my lips. Well how about I experiment with your dick 😐😒😒

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    • Pink Panther
      September 22, 2017

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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    • Bain
      September 22, 2017

      Why would you want to do that?

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    • Soldier
      September 22, 2017

      😂😂😂😂😂

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  9. Troy
    September 22, 2017

    I used to be this way. Still am sha.

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    • Delle
      September 22, 2017

      Oh you used to be like Abiodun, huh? You should be so proud of yourself. 😊😊😊

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  10. Sens8
    September 22, 2017

    Had a friend who made ‘straight’ guys want to do him. We’d talk about it and I’ll always tell him to ease them in so they are sure they want to do it even if it was temporary. Sometimes, all they need is a little nudge to put them right on the side of the fence where they truly belong. But the ‘No Homo’ shit, that is some weak tea he’s brewing.

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    • trystham
      September 22, 2017

      Pjay!!! comman and carry ur broda o. All ye ‘nudgers’

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      • Sens8
        September 23, 2017

        😂😂😂😂. Abeg oh.

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  11. Canis VY Majoris
    September 22, 2017

    9 straight men you said? No hunny…there’s a more appropriate classification for these type of men. Starts with a B, ends with a S.

    And just maybe a tint of IH somewhere inbetween.

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    • Bain
      September 24, 2017

      “Supposedly straight”.

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  12. Muscleblaq
    September 24, 2017

    I love the way you reacted to the kiss, the whole “no homo” thing is just silly and very annoying

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  13. quinn
    September 25, 2017

    Well can’t blame a boy for trying. I can relate to dealing with supposedly hetero guys trying to get a piece of it, asin i just can’t anymore. This one guy keeps tapping my bum (not that I’m complaining), I’m not even ready to test those waters

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  14. Sheun
    October 7, 2017

    Being a silent follower of the blog for years, and this story got me, there is a guy in office, also touches me any how, supposedly invited me over, I refused. I keep my distance. I don’t won’t trouble. Nice write up.

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