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  1. Mandy
    December 25, 2016

    Well done, Vhar. Really. This is well written.
    I too felt some anxiety when I saw that Linda Ikeji piece, then I was like, Wait, I shouldn’t have to be afraid of homophobic Nigerians in my own space.
    Merry Christmas to you too, Vhar. And to you, Pinky. And to every member of this family.

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  2. Dubem
    December 25, 2016

    To the Old Maid…
    ??????
    Can someone please deliver Linda Ikeji’s sub to her?

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  3. Darkside
    December 25, 2016

    *standing ovation*

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  4. Absalom
    December 25, 2016

    Beautifully written, Vhar.

    For me I’ve always campaigned for KD to get out and it has. 🙂 Let the brain-dead homophobes click and receive sense.

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    • Haiku
      December 25, 2016

      For it to get out? Are you the rest of KD? Do you think half of them are ready? Do you know how many people actually read here but never comment? Do you know How many lives have been saved and Inspired By KD? Do you know how safe most of them feel? Especially the paranoid ones with terrible experiences? Seriously you’ve always campaigned for it to come out? SMH. Who even caused this damage? BTW, Well-done Vhar.

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      • Francis
        December 26, 2016

        I’m with Absalom. KD doesn’t do the community plenty of good by staying hidden. Peeps need to know it exists and can get info like potential kito perpetrators from it etc. We need the strength in numbers even if we all stay anonymous. The way I see it it’s like asking for gay porn sites to be hidden from homophobes. Impossible. Hiding never epped anyone. Na so one idiot go go abroad again claim say ain’t no gays in Nigeria.

        If you’re worried about your safety, simply get a new email address for KD comments, clear your browser history each time you’re done reading KD or you could just browse the site in incognito mode. You could also just join the legion of those you feel more comfortable reading than commenting.

        You guys are just being paranoid sha….. Hopefully e go pass

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      • Delle
        December 26, 2016

        Lol ooo. See Doctor Paranoia preaching?????

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      • Francis
        December 26, 2016

        My paranoia can be selective like that. ???

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      • KryxxX
        December 26, 2016

        See Francis oh! ?????Wonders!!!!!! 2016 came packe! ? ? ? ? ?

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  5. Dennis Macaulay
    December 25, 2016

    Brilliantly done Vhar! Absolutely brilliant!!!

    Aunty Linda come and carry your sub with Ghana must go

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  6. Haiku
    December 25, 2016

    ??????????????????????.

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  7. Haiku
    December 25, 2016

    ??????

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  8. Francis
    December 25, 2016

    To all those who are worried, remember this is an anonymous blog. The worst that can happen in any case is that it gets hacked and email addresses are leaked. Even at that, I do hope you use a separate email for KD alerts and communication like I do.

    I saw Old Maid and suddenly wondered what if spinsterhood is her eternal portion for all the hate and pain she continues to propagate for traffic/cash. *sniggers*

    I’ma save that part about the Christian shop owner and gay lifeguard ?

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    • Delle
      December 25, 2016

      Lol ikr? With your profession, they would bend???

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      • Francis
        December 25, 2016

        Coincidentally one staunch homophobe that I’ve been beefing silently waka enter clinic last week. The nigga was not doing fine at all as CD4 was crashing and he’d had a recent stroke. The devil in me was like “leave the nigga to quench biko. Good riddance” but the fire of the Holy Spirit was too intense for me to ignore that day ??? Had to even go beyond my power to make sure we eventually get to the root cause of his predicament. Hopefully he will get better.

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      • ambivalentone
        December 25, 2016

        Halleluyah to Jesus

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  9. Colossus
    December 25, 2016

    Really good one Vhar, beautifully put. Merry Christmas to us all and do have a beautiful celebration.

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  10. Andrevn – Whore of Babel.
    December 25, 2016

    Sub well served!

    Bless you Vhar. This is the IT.

    Merry Christmas everyone, and may the lights forever shine wherever we stand.

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  11. Delle
    December 25, 2016

    Thanks Vhar. This piece was well thought-out and really lit a fire under my ass. I’m reassured that there are lots like me who aren’t afraid to voice against homophobia.
    Gracias.

    Oh and in the spirit of Christmas, can someone kindly deliver Linda’s package to her with a ribbon on top? ???

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  12. Chuck
    December 25, 2016

    It’s funny how even a piece condemning some for bias shows its writer’s bias.
    Old maid? She’s more likely to marry before Vhar, no? Also being unmarried is not a punishment.

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    • Francis
      December 25, 2016

      It’s not a punishment oh but when you’re dying for it and it’s not happening, you have to start investigating who you’ve offended.

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  13. y
    December 25, 2016

    I agree with Chuck. Using a person’s(lack of) marital status to criticise them is a low blow. I don’t know Linda’s view on the lgbt community but she seems like one of the few bloggers who reports stories on the community without injecting moralising rhetoric. That’s fine by me. Also I agree with Francis. This site being hacked and people’s personal information being put out there is a huge concern. A popular blog had the exact same issue. People’s emails and IP addresses where released. We all need to be doubly careful. Merry Christmas blog fam!

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  14. black
    December 26, 2016

    Well done brother man. Merry Christmas everyone. ????‍?‍?

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