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Dear KD 35 Comments

Dear KD: I Have Questions about Coming Out and Marriage

Remember my kito story, and how my mum asked me if I was gay and how I’m yet to give her an answer? Well, for a long time after that,

Series (Non-Fiction) 11 Comments

HEALTH CENTRE: Lubes And Sex

When it comes to lubes, I like to consider myself a sort of connoisseur because I’ve been using them since I became sexually active. Two things I learned the hard

Editor's Desk 6 Comments

Request For A Roommate

Hello I am in urgent need of a roommate here in Abuja. I would love for this person to be a working class person, who will share a self-con with

Series (Non-Fiction) 16 Comments

THE STORY OF ME

I am sitting in the back-garden on a warm, Saturday afternoon. It is 27 degrees today, a rarity that comes twice – maybe thrice – a year in the UK,

Kito Stories 3 Comments

“Stay Off Grindr!” LGBT Advocate Uchenna Samuel Noble Urges The Gay Community | A Kito Alert On A New Mode Of Operation

The LGBT advocate, Uchenna Samuel Noble, who in May narrated his ordeal in the hands of the corrupt, homophobic police force in Asaba, took to Twitter on Sunday to vent

The Happenings 52 Comments

BBNaija’s Prince Enwerem Implies That Homosexuality Is A Consequence of Sexual Assault On Young Boys

The fifth season of Big Brother Naija is currently on the air, and the airwaves are rife with the antics of the housemates in Nigeria’s most watched reality show. When

Series (Non-Fiction) 13 Comments

THE NEW NORMAL (Starting Line)

“Urgh…” It was a month after radiotherapy – March 2020. I was standing in front of a full length mirror at home, inspecting the damage caused by the steroids I

The Happenings 4 Comments

Morning Humour: Marriage Request Feedback

Oftentimes, after putting up posts on behalf of community members, we get feedback. In the case of marriage contracts, the feedback usually ranges from brief thank-yous to updates on how

Kito Stories 7 Comments

Kito Alert: The Berger/Magodo Kito Scum Has Been Identified

Following the publishing of this kito story, about a KDian who was set up in Berger, the number that he supplied led to the uncovering, via truecaller, of the identity

Opinion Pieces 2 Comments

Opinion: Ellen’s Disappointing Transformation From LGBT Hero to Hollywood Villain

Originally published on The Daily Beast   It’s almost trite to say that, as an out gay person, it’s impossible to quantify the impact that Ellen DeGeneres and her public-facing