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Love And Sex In The City 26 Comments

LOVE AND SEX IN THE CITY (Episode 3)

In spite of the urgency I read in Ekene’s call, I took my time closing from work. I put my things together, while mentally calculating the expense of going to

James' Journal 16 Comments

JAMES’ JOURNAL (Entry 2)

April 12 Duke’s travel is an almost done deal. He has dropped off his passport with the person helping him out. I feel sad about it. Not because he is

Kito Stories 24 Comments

HIS KITO STORY (EDITION 3)

This is a story that doubles as a community service – my contribution to making the gay world safer and a better place, one gist at a time. This kito

The Happenings 8 Comments

A Little Twitter Gossip

I was minding my own business o, scouring through twitter . . . you know how that place can be a hotbed of gossip and scandalous comments. And I happened

Our Stories 12 Comments

10 REASONS WHY YOU CANNOT SAY “STRAIGHT-ACTING”

1. You are not straight. 2. You suggest there is a set way straight guys act. 3. You suggest there is a set way gay guys act. 4. You know

The Happenings 10 Comments

Gay Father Whose Beautiful Photo Of His Family Inspired Outrage Speaks Out

In January of this year, two gay fathers made waves across the Internet with a simple photo above of the pair helping two of their three children get ready for

Our Stories 16 Comments

A Stormy Night

It had rained heavily throughout that day and we knew it would continue into the night! Thunder and lightning hammering and crackling ‎as though Poseidon and Thor were at war.

Gallery 11 Comments

Picture Of The Day: The Queen Bee

I saw this photo on twitter and I just had to share. Really quite funny. And it’s a wonder how much Beyoncé has become an icon for women . .

Our Stories 13 Comments

SAFE ONLINE DATING

Nigeria is very homophobic which drives same sex relationships underground. Then came the Internet (I often wonder how men hooked up in the 80s, but that’s matter for another day).

The Happenings 40 Comments

Married Father Comes Out As Gay In A Video

In this inspiring video, 25-year-old Ben Hobson shares the story about his journey to living as his authentic realized self as a gay man — and a married father. Hobson