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Our Stories 47 Comments

A DIFFERENT KIND OF SHAME

Internalized homophobia is something we’re all familiar with in our community, an evil we can spot right off the bat when the person it’s plaguing starts projecting it. It is

Series (Fiction) 12 Comments

WHORE Of BABYLON (Episode 24)

I pull shut the zipper of my sandals just as the door squeaks open. Still in that bent position, I watch as Iliana silently shuts the door behind her; her

Our Stories 10 Comments

STEALING HER WAY TO ME

I am a very reserved 23-year-old woman and like most queer Nigerians, I have been very discreet about my sexuality, especially around my homophobic family. I am so closeted that

Series (Fiction) 30 Comments

The KGB Boy Origins

Following the great reception of his story, The KGB Boy, Mitch has returned with an origin story for the main character in the story. Check on it: * You walked

Editor's Desk 8 Comments

The Nigeria Prize for Difference & Diversity launches | You Can Nominate A Pioneer in this First edition to be endowed by Chude Jideonwo for N1 million

The Working Group for The Nigeria Prize for Difference & Diversity has announced the launch of the initiative, with its first edition to hold in late 2020. The new prize

Our Stories 4 Comments

An Ethnography of KD Stories

Sometime in January, I wrote to this community, asking for volunteer interviewees for the research work I was doing and was immensely touched by the feedback I got; the commitment

Our Stories 8 Comments

WHAT IS IN A NAME? (A Personal Inquiry Into The Process Of Vilifying Words)

“What is in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” (Excerpted from Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare)   A couple

The Happenings 5 Comments

Homosexuality Is NOT Comparable To Rape. But a Nigerian Gay Man doesn’t seem to get this

One of the problems that the queer community faces in the fight against homophobia is having to check the narrative that homosexuality is not comparable to violent crimes. Homophobes are

The Happenings 7 Comments

Simi gets called out on Twitter for her hypocrisy regarding the recognition of human rights

In March, Simi came out on her Youtube show, Stoopid Sessions, to reveal how homophobic she is and her absolute disregard for people based on their sexual orientation. “[Homosexuality] just

Series (Non-Fiction) 2 Comments

To All The Boys I’ve Loved (Entry 5)

Hi Bobby, How are you? I don’t know if you’re going to read this, but I hope you do. First off, I’d like to clarify something: I am no longer