It would seem as though our legacy, especially as Nigerian gay men, is to cheat and ruin relationships. Well, let us explore that. Let us have it. What are those reasons you imagine make gay men cheat?
It would seem as though our legacy, especially as Nigerian gay men, is to cheat and ruin relationships. Well, let us explore that. Let us have it. What are those reasons you imagine make gay men cheat?
Just as it is with straight men, there’s this need to have as such sex as the next guy for bragging rights. Then you have those with wandering eyes who can’t help dragging innocent boys into their mess as if relationship na by force.
You sound Angry… Who cheated on you? Who did this to you, Vhar
True this.
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Damn, Vhar! ????
True,what Vhar said.
A majority of us are pigs
Speak for yourself!
I struck a sensitive spot?
Their third leg cannot stay put inside their pant .
Plenty testosterone….. Just as str8 men cheats.. Tho tht doesn’t make it right.
A large number of men don’t even have valid reasons to cheat. They just cheat
Because we are Pigs…
It’s not just about being tired of routine.
It’s not because they’re totally aloof and have defunct consciences.
Neither is it because they’re thrilled by the new toy from miles away.
Or the appearance of one’s partner.
Or lack of communication.
Or because there’s a cheating gene embedded in folks that cheat
Or because most soulless gay folks think it is OKAY to cheat.
It’s because We. Are. Pigs!
Its because human taste is insatiable…indiscipline and lack of self control…but not everyone cheats though as i can bet for myself though am not into any relationship yet but am seeing someone and it seems it might lead to that.
Can only speak for myself. I could get away with it.
There were other little contributing factors like me and ex being in a bad place, distance, etc. but mostly cause I could get away with it.
The thrill of the chase.
Only, most times, we don’t get that those are just cheap thrills.
When I was in a relationship, a perfect 10 hit on me. And I thought, ‘if I don’t bang this person now, God might actually punish me.’ So I did. But it was a one time thing.
Because men generally don’t believe themselves to be monogamous.
Because Nigerian gay men don’t believe in relationships since, well, we must all marry.
Sometimes, it’s just boredom. Not being able to be with a particular person for a long time, you want to explore a lot of other options.
Me I feel that it’s these three things that make us cheat or let me them cheat
1.self confidence
2.excessive hormonal secretion
3.lack of faith in their partners
4. Bad influence
All sexualities besides the asexuals cheat. No reason required, It’s a basic human characteristics. The real question is what are we cheating at?.
Lol.
“If You don’t date anyone and fuck everyone. You don’t cheat.”
(Inserts the meme that suits the quote).
fear of committing totally to one person I guess
It’s simple, men who cheat do so because they want to cheat. No excuses or circumstance, it’s a choice.