The Proposal: Here Are Two Queer Men Are Looking For Long-Lasting Connections With Interested Queer Women
1. A Germany-based Gay Man Looking To Co-Parent With A Lesbian or Bisexual Woman
Hello, I’m Felix, 30 years old, and a Nigerian gay man based in Germany. Sadly, I am under pressure to start my own family. My older siblings are all married with a kid or two. And so, all eyes from my family are on me to take my turn and do the needful.
However, I do not have any plans of getting married, but I am very much ready to have my own kids. For this reason, I’m here hoping to find a lesbian or bisexual lady who also wishes to have kids without necessarily being married to the father of her kids. I would prefer an independent woman, who would be willing to accept a 50/50 shared parenting plan.
You do not have to already be based in Germany, but for the child’s interest, we both need to be within the European schengen regions. The woman I am hoping to co-parent with should be understanding and a lover of children.
If you are interested, kindly reach out to me on felix.naijade@gmail.com
Thank you.
2. A Lagos-based Gay Man Looking To Commit To A Marriage With A Lesbian
I am Eddy, 35 years old, from the South, and a working professional who lives in Lagos, Nigeria.
I am seeking a contractual arrangement with a lesbian interested in starting a friendship that will eventually lead to marriage to me. This is quite urgent as my family is starting to pressure me into a marital commitment.
So the ideal woman should be within the age range of 28-34 years, from any part of the country, smart and a working professional. I am open to having children and willing to explore available channels to achieve this.
If you genuinely share the same plight, please reach out to me at ebncool@yahoo.com. We can take it up from there.
Thank you.
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9 Comments
Rehoboth
January 19, 08:52Mr Felix, have you ever considered getting a surrogate and a nanny for the kid(s)?
Mr Eddy, it mustn’t necessarily be a lesbian. Expand your search to include ladies open to such arrangement
Mandy
January 19, 09:07Rehoboth is right. Felix, for what you are proposing, you don’t really need a lesbian partner. You are in the advanced society where you could easily get a surrogate to carry a child for you, and then a nanny to help you with the childcare.
Felix
January 19, 09:36A full time nanny in Germany would be charging around 1300 euros per month which is roughly 650k in naira. That’s a lot. These options would be the final resort.
Instead of paying all that to a foreign Nanny, I’d rather go the village, marry a responsible girl, make her the mother of my kids and put her on a monthly salary of 150k (I believe 150k is enough to live a very comfortable life in the village)
That’s why I’m considering co-parenting. But if this plan doesn’t work, village here I come!
May God help us all
Sage Philip
January 19, 20:46Beware of those village girls. Ha n’awazikwa Anya.
Royal Knight
June 22, 09:20I understand your decision, for me it’s about giving the child or children a mother. That’s something surrogacy or having a nanny can’t replace.
Wish you the best bro!
Lopez
January 19, 22:36And your child will be raised in a Nigerian village.
MGMhater
January 20, 10:51All these witches, allow them na. All these negative energy. Witch
Gay4Simz
January 24, 11:13Get a lesbian
Chime.
January 24, 14:14Eziokwu.