The Proposal: I’m A Lesbian Looking For A Gay/Bi Man To Wed
Hello, I’m Bola (not my real name), a 27 year-old Nigerian Lesbian. I am a graduate, currently self employed and living in Lagos.
I am under pressure from family on the issue of getting married as I’m the first child of my father.
I am interested in a male partner who’s Yoruba, Christian and Gay or Bisexual. He should be within the age range of 29 – 48 years of age, and he should want to get into a contract marriage within the next year and willing to have children through various channels we both find convenient.
Please, I have to reiterate that this guy should be Yoruba.
The man I am hoping to partner with should be understanding; he has to know we’re in this together and would be willing to have my back as I will have his own any day.
If you are interested, kindly reach out to me on lobat6951@gmail.com
Thank you.
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6 Comments
Colourful man
October 26, 09:19I want that guy to be me so bad. But I’m Igbo.
Mandy
October 26, 09:58Contact her still. Maybe you two would find such common ground, the ethnicity will end up being a non-issue.
Jeff Opal
October 27, 15:52Hi. Any dude in Canada, preferably Toronto and interested in meeting up when all this is calmer. Please send me a mail.
jeffopal90@gmail.com
Wonda Buoy
October 28, 06:18After succumbing to the pressure to get married, there’ll be the pressure to start producing children.
Francis
October 30, 19:00he should want to get into a contract marriage within the next year and willing to have children
Earl
November 23, 06:06Honestly, it’s not the most beautiful reality… But this is the best way to fight the ugly reality LGBT people face especially when they come of age and are pressured into marriage by society and family. I wish you well ma. I hope you find someone ❤