The Proposal: I’m A Lesbian Looking For A Gay/Bi Man To Wed

The Proposal: I’m A Lesbian Looking For A Gay/Bi Man To Wed

Hello, I’m Bola (not my real name), a 27 year-old Nigerian Lesbian. I am a graduate, currently self employed and living in Lagos.

I am under pressure from family on the issue of getting married as I’m the first child of my father.

I am interested in a male partner who’s Yoruba, Christian and Gay or Bisexual. He should be within the age range of 29 – 48 years of age, and he should want to get into a contract marriage within the next year and willing to have children through various channels we both find convenient.

Please, I have to reiterate that this guy should be Yoruba.

The man I am hoping to partner with should be understanding; he has to know we’re in this together and would be willing to have my back as I will have his own any day.

If you are interested, kindly reach out to me on lobat6951@gmail.com

Thank you.

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6 Comments

    • Mandy
      October 26, 09:58 Reply

      Contact her still. Maybe you two would find such common ground, the ethnicity will end up being a non-issue.

  1. Jeff Opal
    October 27, 15:52 Reply

    Hi. Any dude in Canada, preferably Toronto and interested in meeting up when all this is calmer. Please send me a mail.
    jeffopal90@gmail.com

  2. Wonda Buoy
    October 28, 06:18 Reply

    After succumbing to the pressure to get married, there’ll be the pressure to start producing children.

    • Francis
      October 30, 19:00 Reply

      he should want to get into a contract marriage within the next year and willing to have children

  3. Earl
    November 23, 06:06 Reply

    Honestly, it’s not the most beautiful reality… But this is the best way to fight the ugly reality LGBT people face especially when they come of age and are pressured into marriage by society and family. I wish you well ma. I hope you find someone ❤

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